Bit off more than I can chew?

[whaywardj]

Oh, gawd! One of those moments I wish I could take back!

[shh!]

I know *I* was traumatized...

[whaywardj]

Told you I was hung.

[Rosebud]

You didn't prove that..

[whaywardj]

The proof's in the pudding, Sweetie.

::here kitty, kitty, kitty...that's a *good* girl...::

[Rosebud]

LOL! The pudding?? LOL Hayward you are too much..

[Mish]

Try this (it works for therapists who get paid lots of money to say this over and over and over again):

"I see... And how does that make you feel?"

Every now and then try throwing in:

"Wow, that's tough. What are you going to do?"

Don't forget also:

"...And why do you feel ther urge to do that?"

As well as

"Are there similar symptoms present in your family?"

I think you can last for hours with these four lines

By the way, who is the girl in question, how do you know her?

[indigosoul]

Sing her a song, W... and make her laugh. What you said is great, but we can overanalyze things too. We're not wired for depression when we laugh. Is my armchair pyschology for the day:

Buzzard took the monkey for a ride in the air
The monkey thought that everything was on the square
The buzzard tried to throw the monkey off his back
But the monkey grabbed his neck and said-- Now listen, Jack

Straighten up and fly right
Straighten up and fly right
Straighten up and fly right
Cool down, papa, don't you blow your top.
Ain't no use in divin'
What's the use in jivin'
Straighten up and fly right
Cool down, papa, don't you blow your top.

[Rosebud]

I never read your sig before indigo.... I love that song!

[indigosoul]

I never read your sig before indigo.... I love that song!

Thanks. Its a reminder to myself about our assumptions about life and esp. interpersonal relationships.

[Tone]

Yeah, good song!