Have you ever had a man like this??

[Bluevetteracer]

This is such horseshit.

Not anybody on here or the advice, just this situation.

Why in the world would anybody get involved with someone if they are not over there past ex??????????

So you can punish some unsuspecting person with your insecurities, let them fall in love with you, and then you leave them hanging. Sham on anyone that does this to any person. It is irresponsible, and hurtful. Get your crap squared away, and be prepared to accept the next person in your life.

I have thrown the towel in on several women who give me this line:

"I need time to trust you; I have been burned so many times"

Response - "You, Me and the rest of western civilization, get over it and move on, I did, and I trust you, you could burn me bad, but I am not going to make you suffer, go out of your way, etc, to calm my fears and fix my problem".

"I still love so and so"

Response - So why did you accept a date with me, accept flowers, kiss me, and or sleep with me".

I have never played with a women's emotions like the above, it is hurtful and rude. If you are prepared to date someone, sleep with them, etc, then you better be ready to trust them, and have a relationship with them.

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[misombra]

i think that's commendable, bluevette, just cause most guys ARE that insensitive. even the so-called nice guys.

[clynn]

ha haha haha..

HANK WILLIAMS sang that song! A long - long - long time before Norah Jones ever did.

Ha ha ha ha ha.

But I'll have to find her version, I am sure she has done a lovely job of it.

[soul_on_fire]

This is such horseshit.

Not anybody on here or the advice, just this situation.

Why in the world would anybody get involved with someone if they are not over there past ex??????????

So you can punish some unsuspecting person with your insecurities, let them fall in love with you, and then you leave them hanging. Sham on anyone that does this to any person. It is irresponsible, and hurtful. Get your crap squared away, and be prepared to accept the next person in your life.

I have thrown the towel in on several women who give me this line:

"I need time to trust you; I have been burned so many times"

Response - "You, Me and the rest of western civilization, get over it and move on, I did, and I trust you, you could burn me bad, but I am not going to make you suffer, go out of your way, etc, to calm my fears and fix my problem".

"I still love so and so"

Response - So why did you accept a date with me, accept flowers, kiss me, and or sleep with me".

I have never played with a women's emotions like the above, it is hurtful and rude. If you are prepared to date someone, sleep with them, etc, then you better be ready to trust them, and have a relationship with them.

OFF RANT-

You do make a good point. But, with our society things just don't work like that unfortunatly.

[Junsui]

I agree, Bluevette. Get over your ex before getting involved with another relationship.