Being friends now - tough

[misombra]

aw journ. there's someone out there who's right for you. has she called you yet? your ex that is. lol.

[Journey]

aw journ. there's someone out there who's right for you. has she called you yet? your ex that is. lol.

No she hasn't called back after the lunch, which was thursday. But guess what! One of her friends that she brought along left a message on my phone today. She said she will call back tomorrow.
I'm guessing she wants to hang out, but I do not want to go out with her, even though I'd give her a 7/10. If I did, wouldn't that send the message to my ex that "yah, I'm ok with you seeing that other guy because I'm seeing your friend now". Maybe she feels bad about what she is doing and wants my "approval" by going out with her friend. Maybe she just wants to keep me in the loop somehow? What's going on here?

Don't worry Misombra. I think to myself "I'll be alriiiiighht withouuuut you.... there must be someone eeelse I keep tellin' Myyself...."

[misombra]

she probably likes you, you're obviously a good guy, and maybe feels bad about not sharing your feelings.

7/10 isn't good enough for my journey.

[whaywardj]

What's a 7/10?

[Junsui]

7 out of 10? Maybe? I don't know

[Bluevetteracer]

Well, have you been intimate with any of her friends? Have you had discussions in great length with them, about anything?

The difference between dating her friends and dating her again is that she knows what you are all about, and she is rejecting you. Her friends just have an idea, told by her what you are about. You may be just what one of them has dreamed about. YOU NEVER KNOW!

So you would not be a hand me down, or day old bread. You would be someone's choice, there #1. If they reject you, look for better, then come back????

Take one of her friends for example, she has rejected everyone up until you came along, she is not married, SO, you could be the one, you will have to find out.

[Bluevetteracer]

Date her friend, but have nothing to do with your EX for a while. And ask your new date to not mention her either.

[shh!]

So you would not be a hand me down, or day old bread. You would be someone's choice, there #1.

I agree with this thinking...

[Journey]

she probably likes you, you're obviously a good guy, and maybe feels bad about not sharing your feelings.

7/10 isn't good enough for my journey.

Yah Misombra, 7/10 is not good enough.
You know, I don't need her friend. I can find another girl outside of my ex's sphere. I just need some time. I think one day I'll be singing another one of my classics .... "who's crying now".

[gHEXjt]

Yah Misombra, 7/10 is not good enough.
You know, I don't need her friend. I can find another girl outside of my ex's sphere. I just need some time. I think one day I'll be singing another one of my classics .... "who's crying now".

Singing which part, the lyrics, or singing along to Schon's killer melodic solo at the end?

[misombra]

Yah Misombra, 7/10 is not good enough.
You know, I don't need her friend. I can find another girl outside of my ex's sphere. I just need some time. I think one day I'll be singing another one of my classics .... "who's crying now".

yeah!!! you don't need these girls' friends'. it's her way of keeping you around without doing the work. screw her, you can do so much better than her and her stupid friends.

[Journey]

yeah!!! you don't need these girls' friends'. it's her way of keeping you around without doing the work. screw her, you can do so much better than her and her stupid friends.

The friend never called back yesterday like she said she would, or today. But I did receive an e-mail today from my ex - one of those "join this friends network thingy to keep in contact with your friends".

"Girl can't help it." Journey

[misombra]

..two heaaaaaaaaaaaaaarts boooooooooooooooorn to ruuuuuuuuuun
who'll beeeeeeeeeeeeeeee the loooooooooooooooooonely ooooooooooooooooooone
wondeeeeeeeeer whooooooooooooooooos cryyyyyyyyyyyyin noooooooooooooooooow...

[gHEXjt]

..two heaaaaaaaaaaaaaarts boooooooooooooooorn to ruuuuuuuuuun
who'll beeeeeeeeeeeeeeee the loooooooooooooooooonely ooooooooooooooooooone
wondeeeeeeeeer whooooooooooooooooos cryyyyyyyyyyyyin noooooooooooooooooow...

LOL! I will continue this:

"One looooove, feeds the fire, one heart buuuuuuuurns desire
Wonder whoooooooos cryin now..."

[Journey]

LOL! I will continue this:

"One looooove, feeds the fire, one heart buuuuuuuurns desire
Wonder whoooooooos cryin now..."

I'm so touched! Journey is most pleased!!!

So many stooormy nights,
So many wroooooong or riiiiights....
Neither could change their headstrong waaaays....
And in a lover's rage
they tore anooooother page
The fightin' is worth the love theeeeeeey saaaaave..

One looooove, feeds the fire, one heart buuuuuuuurns desire
Wondeeer whoooooooos cryin now.
Two heeeeeeearts born to run....
Who'll be the looooooonely oooone
Wondeeeeer, whooo's cryin' now...