What would you do if you were in my position

[Junsui]

Why would you die? Have you died so far from not having sex?

[tooxshort]

good luck with waiting 9 months ... in high school, 9 months seemed like forever ... "omg you've been with her for 4 months!? DAAAAAAAMN!"

[Rosebud]

I know things are all good, but I'm still confused why you were stressing over the fact that you had to wait 9 more months when you already waited well over a year?? Oh well... Glad to hear it all worked out!

[gingerbabe86]

just be patient.. u did the right thing.. the waiting will pay of in the end... and don't think of breaking up that easily just over sex.. it's not like u'r not gonna get it.. just a little later when she's ready for it... learn to respect her views

[Only-virgins]

I can't figure out if the poster here is an idiot or if he is just making this dumb shit up. If she doesnt want to then you dont or its rape...thank you and come again. Anyways..18 and a virgin....OMG! you loser...! ..pffft..im 22 and a virgin...I dont even have time to get laid with school and work and nor do I care to anymore.

[Junket]

all my friends who have the same age and only have girlfriends for 3 months did it and they all say it's great and I am with this girl for a year and have to wait 9 more month!

P*ssy.

I'm 19 and goin' strong.

[bluesummer]

Ok all went well. Following your suggestions I talked to her and we made up, I told her that I will wait for her...
Before posting here I even tought of breaking up....

God I hope I won't die :|

Anyhow, more posts from you guys to make me feel even better about my decision would be greatly appreciated.

I can't believe you actually thought of breaking up with your gf for not putting out. God! My bf waited a whole year for me, not because I was waiting to turn 18, but because I wanted to be sure the relationship was not centered around his raging hormonal urges. He was fine with it, because he loved and respected me.

I hate that guys peer pressure each other into sex at such young ages - it's no wonder they learn such little respect for women. They're taught to see them early on as mere objects to fulfill their sexual urges and using their 'conquests' to gain status among their peers. Disgusting. I cheer on those guys who manage to keep it in their pants til they're looking for more than just someone to get them off.

[whaywardj]

...it's no wonder they learn such little respect for women. They're taught to see them early on as mere objects to fulfill their sexual urges and using their 'conquests' to gain status among their peers...

Huh? You mean they're NOT?! Damn.

[Tone]

..pffft..im 22 and a virgin...I dont even have time to get laid with school and work and nor do I care to anymore.

*cough*bullshit*cough*

[Late_vamp]

*cough*bullshit*cough*

haha , theres a difference between giving up and not caring .

he just gave up , without putting up a fight probably ... Hey OV .. did you even try in the first place ... ?

[iLLuSioN_x]

It is torture to stay at a table with your friends while they talk about how much fun they had last night and so on, while you with your 1 year old relationship did nothing never.
It started to make me feel that the relationship is not complete without a sexual life.

And to be honesc I'm sure all this wouldn't be so dramatic if I weren't a virgin.
These are my arguments for those who don't understand me.

[Junket]

Oh, yeah. Now that you mention it, I see that, too. Maybe we'll do something about that sometime. Like when it's warmer.

Well, unfortunately (in this case) I'll only be here for 2 more weeks, until my project is over.

I head back home for Christmas/New Year's and then I'll be back in the south once again up until June.

Where exactly, I don't know yet.

[Junsui]

It is torture to stay at a table with your friends while they talk about how much fun they had last night and so on, while you with your 1 year old relationship did nothing never.
It started to make me feel that the relationship is not complete without a sexual life.

And to be honesc I'm sure all this wouldn't be so dramatic if I weren't a virgin.
These are my arguments for those who don't understand me.

If this is torture, how will you survive the rest of your life? Tougher situations will come along.

[iLLuSioN_x]

That remains to be seen. Let's not go that far.

[Junket]

Illusion...it's only important if you make it important.

Believe me, I've been in your shoes.