Am I a ***** for being upset when my fiance watches porn?

[boobaa]

I haven't experienced much life and I don't want to ruin anyones life also, but porn is another women, and masturbating while looking OTHER women is like cheating since the masturbater wants sex with this OTHER. Get it?

[Lloyd95]

I haven't experienced much life and I don't want to ruin anyones life also, but porn is another women, and masturbating while looking OTHER women is like cheating since the masturbater wants sex with this OTHER. Get it?

What the ****?
You're kidding me, right?

[Asip4u]

Oh please...it's so not like cheating!

[Asip4u]

What the ****?
You're kidding me, right?

Wouldn't surprise me if he's serious about it, Lloyd.

[whaywardj]

::wipes glasses to make sure he read it correctly and reads it again. shakes head in resigned disbelief::

[Junsui]

hehehe I usually see women have that outlook, but not men.

[vashti]

hehehe I usually see women have that outlook, but not men.

I usually see girls with that outlook, but not women.

[Junsui]

Oh shh! You know what I meant!

[vashti]

Of course I did! You meant to say that booba should stop thinking like a woman.
hehehe

[Junsui]

He should stop thinking like a little girl.

[Lloyd95]

Of course I did! You meant to say that booba should stop thinking like a woman.
hehehe

With a post like that, I don't think he was thinking.

[Junsui]

Lloyd, you better watch yourself or you'll lose your lollipop.

[Rosebud]

I used to have the same feelings as you at one point in my relationship. I felt inadequate and that I couldn't compare and felt as though I wasn't enough. The fact is he is comfortable enough to do this when you are around and to let you even see what he was doing which is a good sign..he could hide this from you which would make you feel even worse. Have you tried to maybe watch porn with him? Get yourself comfortable enough with him to be able to get into some of his interests. It's not that he feels your not enough, it's just something a guy does.. they like visual stimulation. And for example if you woke up when he was masturbating...why not join in and help him? Just a couple ideas.

And I hate to say it but the more you tell him not watch to watch porn the more he will. He knows it bothers you and how it makes you feel but this is something he enjoys and probably has for awhile considering he was a virgin when you guys met.

[Junsui]

Yeah, but he may not want her to join in. I like to masturbate alone.

[Rosebud]

Yeah but you would do it when nobody's home right? he did it while she was sleeping and probably just went on urge... so it can't hurt to try, and besides if it came down a to guy asking "hmm, would I want to masturbate or have her turn me" I think we all know what they would want.