am i so ugly?

[LINEBACKER _2]

Confidence is the key. For sure.

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[jane]

Confidence all by itself is attractive in man. You can spot it a mile away. That can make the ugliest man alive look incrediably handsome just by him having confindence in himself. Women like that because it makes them feel secure about them too. Only a confidenant man can date a confident woman. Get it?

[LINEBACKER _2]

That's the truth. Confidence makes a world of difference.

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[lemonade69]

WHAT?? are you serious?? no way! (in reply to 'am i ugly?'...not the confidence thing) XD

[hokulele]

u are so much better-looking than my boyfriend!

(sorry matt! luv ya lots )

[LINEBACKER _2]

Oh, there's a self esteem booster if I ever saw one.

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[DuckyWucky]

u are so much better-looking than my boyfriend!

(sorry matt! luv ya lots )

[leight69]

man this post was a bit of a loaded question don't ya think?

Am I so Ugly?.......loaded question if I ever heard one...

Anyway dude, you'll have to work on your self image or you'll run into some serious issues.

Although this may sound like im bragging....that is certainly not the intent...I'm a decent looking guy, however I was always under the immpression that I was fat and undesierable (and I'll admit I have been very chubby at times) - but what I eventually have learned is that I am quite attractive, I just had a poor perception of myself.

Here's the story of what started my change in view of my self-image.

When I worked in an office a few summers ago, and did the bank deposits for them. The bank was FULL of young women who were bank clerks. (I always liked going there, cause there were a bunch of cuties in business dress). So I always had to go there at the same time, ever day to do the daily accounting/banking for the firm.

When the summer was over and I returned to school, the job went back to the person who did it before, and the bank clerks complained at length that they hire me back on, because they wanted their eye candy back. - Go figure.

[jane]

ok ya know what?
If you think your ugly, you are .. either get over it or deal with it.

[leight69]

simple to say, hard to do

what do you think the problems with anerexia and bolemia ???(forgive the spelling)

People (girls namely) think they are fat when they aren't and stop eating to try to become "skinny" and "desierable"....and low and behold develop an eating disorder.

Perhaps a simplification of the problem...but accurate enough.

Alot of it comes back to self-image, self-body-image.

So wanna tell someone who has an eating disorder to just get over it?

[jane]

no, and your right.. sometimes I can be alittle overzelus.. (SP)
Im sorry. I certainly didn't want to offend anyone.

[LINEBACKER _2]

OKay, but the guy doesn't have an eating disorder.

So, either way, he should get over.

Jane, retract your apology.

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[leight69]

And Linebacker misses the entier point of the post....*sigh*

The point is that self-image is a big deal and learning to deal with those image problems are more complex to boil it down to "if you think you're ugly then you are"

this guy has a case of poor self-image, and just cause this is an online portal does not mean we should brush it off so lightly. and maybe our posts should deal with that issue.

did anyone else hear about that online forum that encouraged a guy to commit suicide?

[LINEBACKER _2]

No, the guy probably thinks he ISN'T ugly and just wants an ego boost. If he thought he was that disgusting, he wouldn't put his picture up on the internet.

Leigh69, I suppose I'm just not that sympathetic.

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[leight69]

maybe its just me, but i seriously doubt a guy who thinks he's hot shit would post a picture on an internet forum asking if he's ugly? Common man, do you really think that someone who thinks they're all that is gonna go online asking if they are ugly?