would this make you mad, jealous or both?

[TAVS]

Ya'll are way to melodramatic. It's not that alcohol is an 'excuse' it's that it lowers inhibitions plane and simple. Relax, everyone is just having fun. I automatically had assumed she asked a man cause he's stronger and she has a broken leg. Duh.

[vashti]

Based on the other threads you've started, you already know this whole relationship is heading in a bad direction. Your guy crossed the line, as did your supposed "friend".

If you notice, the girls are all saying this was inappropriate. Maybe this is because we know the nature of girls better than the guys?

[funsounds]

Ya'll are way to melodramatic. It's not that alcohol is an 'excuse' it's that it lowers inhibitions plane and simple. Relax, everyone is just having fun. I automatically had assumed she asked a man cause he's stronger and she has a broken leg. Duh.

right, exactly. alcohol lowers inhibition...plain and simple. so if you don't wanna do anything stupid, don't drink. otherwise, expect SOME sort of idiocy to occur...some of which may offend you.

and i thought the same...ask the strong guy...duh...

[TAVS]

Anyone need assistance to the ladies room?

[vashti]

If I really needed assistance, I would ask misombra. If I wanted male attention, I would ask a man.

[TAVS]

If I really needed assistance, I would ask misombra. If I wanted male attention, I would ask a man.

A little lesbian action huh? Kinky, and I like it.

[Junsui]

Why would each trip to the bathroom get longer and longer if he was just helping to go into the bathroom? Was he walking her in there and pulling her pants down and back up for her?

[funsounds]

Why would each trip to the bathroom get longer and longer if he was just helping to go into the bathroom? Was he walking her in there and pulling her pants down and back up for her?

i thought about that. my thinking is that the gf (the poster) is crazy...they probably weren't longer and longer...but her anxiety level rose so she thought they were longer and longer.

[Mish]

1. Your friend SHOULD have asked a GIRL to help her into the WOMENS bathroom, there is NO sense in asking a guy to do that. Plus, gender aside, she is YOUR friend, she has 2 reasons right there to have asked you (or a woman) for help.

2. I agree with Chii 288, No matter what happens, alchohol isn't an excuse for one's behavior, only 12yr olds are expected to use alcohol as an excuse, anyone else should be more accountable for their actions (ie: more mature).

3. Referring to above, i don't care how drunk a boyfriend is, asking to see his gf's friend's panties crosses the line. Period.

Bottom line: i'd be mad, and feel disrespected. But not jealous. If he's going to act like such a fool (with or without the booze), loose him.

I agree with this post

I remember giving you advice in the past that more problems will come for you in relationship with this guy. People learn, but do not change. I think it's time you started to wieght your benefits against the negatives with him.

[Junsui]

If you notice, the girls are all saying this was inappropriate. Maybe this is because we know the nature of girls better than the guys?

Yeah, I know if I was needing help getting to the bathroom, I would ask my friend to help me. If I was trying to move in on some girl's bf (which I wouldn't do anyways) I would ask him to help me so I could get some one on one time without her nearby. It may or may not have been innocent on the guy's part, but I'm sure the girl knew what she was doing. Plus, I think Chelsee's relationship has been on the rocks for awhile now, so I wouldn't see this as being nothing.

[Rosebud]

My god Junsui! Your avatar is like a car crash...I can't stop looking at it!

In general speaking... Our friends do that sorta stuff all the time. Although none of the girls instigate anything with anyone else's Bf. I don't look at it being a big deal, but only because I'm used to my friends getting drunk and whipping stuff out and what not.

But in this case. I don't know much about the whole situation and I imagine there is a lot more with this guy than what I have read here but in all honestly I'd blame your friend before I'd blame your BF. Just based off this, like Vashti said she's looking for attention form a guy. Any girl that would ask a GUY to help into the bathroom (i'm assuming she had crutches) instead of a girl friend has alterior motives whther it be attention or whatever!

[Late_vamp]

2 things

break the other leg of your friend if it continues and dump your BF ... simple

no seriously , i think you should watch out but dont judge yet , just keep your eyes open .

[Tone]

Um, yes BUDGE NOW - you guys don't remember reading all of her other threads of what a jerkoff her boyfriend is??

Ugh - like I said this is one of the many warning signs that this guy is going to end up hurting you that you will FAIL to acknowledge, make excuses for, and find a way to see past it to stay with him cause of the fear of being alone.

[Lloyd95]

So did she show him? Her panties?

[Tone]

I'm sure she did in one of the 9 trips to the bathrooms he escorted her to.