let go?

[Tone]

ANSWER ME lilwing!

[lilwing89]

Why do you waste your time, and go through such unnecessary stress and frustration over someone who is so immature, and who's feelings for you are so shaky she's more concerned with how others think than claim you as her boyfriend? Or even acknowledge you out in public for that matter...

ok. this isnt tough to answer so i will.

because i am in love with her.
although she 'frustrates' me by being concerned about others wrecking our relationship by teasing us every day to the point where we want it to end, there are greater qualities she has that make it possible to love such a person.

i can understand why you get the impression that she is such an immature person; its because the only things i post about her are problems i have with her. i never post anything that relates to good. and you want the reason for that too i suppose? well because i come here for help and advice. would you ask for advice on something that is going your way? no. now i understand taht i could brag about stuff and get some motivation but im not one who needs that. or does that.

and im still not letting go. why? because i love the girl. im sure you all can relate to the big one, (fight) where you thought it was over because of it and you basically lost your head? well that is what happened here.

and i really never talk to her at school either. i dunno why. she talks to my brother(and other guys) without my brother(and other guys) giving any reason to. so why not me? she doesnt give a reason she just says 'i dont know why i dont talk to you at school' but i talk to other girls.. so i guess ill be the big man and take the first step towards mankind? except i gotta figure out why first.. well, im stuck like a stick in the mud and icant figure it out. i dont even think you are sposed to think about things like this, you are just sposed to do them?

[vashti]

You are only allowed to use "love" as an excuse for tolerating bad behavior until you are 18, lilwing. Then you will have to learn to stick up for yourself regardless of your feelings, IMO.

[lilwing89]

how do you know?

[vashti]

IMO = in my opinion.

That is my opinion, because after that age, you start looking silly when you say it.

[lilwing89]

well, shh! you dont just stop believing in something because everyone thinks its stupid.. and im not being silly when im talkin about love and fyi my friends know that and they dont think it is silly either and i wouldnt be talking to anybody else except my friends about that...so ha!

[vashti]

Of course it isn't silly when you are 15. This is your first love, and you are overwhelmed with the emotional aspects of it. I don't mean to sound negative. It is just that when you are older, you rule with your head rather than your heart.

[lilwing89]

yea...and ya dont sound negative

and im 16 and you should remember that cause its been a half a year!

and i think this is the first girl im REALLY inlove with.. i dated 2 others for a while but i dont think i did even though i told them..

and this prolly sounds common among teens but i hope i can be with her forever even though she can be a mean snotty ***** when we fight lol

[vashti]

Yeah - just make sure she loves you, too. In public and in private.