Need some help :(

[Late_vamp]

good , just dont go back to smoking it ... youll see , in a couple of years those little 10$ joints you were packing will add up to hundreds ,.even thousands ... heck im sure i spent more than 3000$ in drugs when i was your age and back then thats alot ... even now thats alot ...

glad we could help and best of luck .

[Pears]

Give her some time to recover.

If you want her to trust you again, you better not lie anymore.

For most cases, it's best not to stay friends after a relationship. Many people can not move on if they are constantly thinking of someone else.

[HarryJ]

Hi all

thought id post about whats been happening.

well 2 days after we broke up properly, she got with another guy. she still flirted with me loads, and she told me she liked me still whilst she was with him :|

a few days ago she dumped him. she said to him their relationship wasnt wat she wanted. we spoke on the phone last night for about 4 hours about how we miss each other and we talked about our memories and stuff. and she told me she loves me and all the time she was with sam all she could think about was me. we talked about the whole incident and how she doesnt trust me still, and in the end she said she still really likes me but thinks it will never work again because of the trust.

now im stuck with this. do i completly end it here? or still try and gain her trust. i know wat i did was stupid and i feel like an absolute jerk. i know id never lie to my gf again.

is there still anything there? she tells me shes sure it wont work again, but she also tells me how much she misses us being together and how she loves me (which i dont think she does, i think its just the whole "1st proper bf" fling and stuff)

if i was to understand that its never going to work, should i stay friends with her? she still wants to be friends, but i dont think i can move on coz everytime we talk as friends i spend the next few days thinking deeply about her.

:'(