Is it ok to have sex with an ex?

[misombra]

I'm a left-brained person, so therefore I think with logic and math rather than language and creativity. In my head there's a simple algorithm that takes place.

pussy = good;
boobs = good;
femaleAss = good;

if (woman = inSight)
     analyseBody();

if (body == hot)
     tryTo****();

if (woman == taken)
     killBoyfriend();

your sig should say "post whore".

[King Zarathu]

your sig should say "post whore".

Okay, done.

[Converse]

Haha that was pretty funny! Nice sig lol!

[King Zarathu]

It's because I'm cool and it's her birthday

Err..was

[misombra]

lol that's pretty good.

[Neveryoumind]

Well,
Like I said I think she wants to have sex because she wants to be close to me, it feels right, and is hoping that from sex it may lead to a relationship over time.

However, I am worried I'll start loving her again (I still do have pretty strong feelings for her) and of course worried about complications. Also, I am worried about her, when the time comes and I tell her no more sex (new girlfriend or something).

In a way, I feel because she cheated, she doesn't deserve me, or anything from me. I still talk to her, we still go have lunches together and stuff but I don't even let her give me a hug. At the same time, I don't even know if I can go ahead with it, not just the sex but everything leading up to the sex. Can I go down on her knowing she cheated and some other guy had his dick there, and cummed all over there?

But, after 4.5 years she knows what I like in the bedroom, I feel really comfortable with her, and she is quite good looking and has a really nice body. Which brings me to another problem/solution.
I don't like chubby girls at all. And I am thinking that she has put on weight because of the baby, and that maybe if I had sex with her, saw her naked I would get turned off by her, and get over her a lot quicker?

[Lynx3]

I was friends with benefits with my ex, and it was like the same as dating, except we didnt hold hands in public, and didnt make out in public. So we got attracted to each other again. Then she got a bf.

Maybe its different, maybe its not. But anywhoo...good luck.

[Cybog]

I'm a left-brained person, so therefore I think with logic

I got a good laugh out of that.

[King Zarathu]

Are you making a pathetic attempt at a euphemism or did you actually laugh at my code?

[Thank you Lynx3 for correction.]

[Lynx3]

If you use such complex words, spell them correctly? Euphemism.. Logic always fails, what if.. what if...what if mushrooms grew inside of your mouth? Be more practical.

[King Zarathu]

Euphemism isn't a complex word...

[Tone]

I wouldn't do it man. Especially if you know she wants to get back with you.. you're just going to be leading her on and causing more problems/drama by sleeping with her.

[xwfuro]

I wouldn't do it man. Especially if you know she wants to get back with you.. you're just going to be leading her on and causing more problems/drama by sleeping with her.

\YEPYEPOYEPYEPYEP

[TAVS]

You're an idiot of you start sleeping with her again.

Anyway; I'm out; time for a nice juicy steak.

[Converse]

You're an idiot of you start sleeping with her again.

Anyway; I'm out; time for a nice juicy steak.

Lucky Bugger! Hopefully it's not done rare, urgh!