I need desperate help!

[ILoveRLACV]

the thing is though... i dont want to get over her. I just talked to her and I let her know that I know how she feels and that i hate myself for doing what i did to her. I made sure I made no mention of me wanting her to take me back. She was speechless literally. I asked her if she honestly feels right, and she said im still recovering but i think its wahts right yes. Then we talked and she said she had to sleep. So I think when she falls asleep I should call her and I know she'll be sleeping and she wont hear it right (plus its on silent) and I'm gonna say somthing cheesy like this...

"Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived."

Good Idea?

[joe1234]

I felt like he did when i got rejected by some one i thought i loved....of course i got over it preety quick but for those two days i didnt eat, not much sleep and didnt study....talk this over with a true friend whomever it may be they may help. if not lend a shoulder to cry on

[vashti]

I'm gonna say somthing cheesy like this...

"Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived."

Good Idea?

I don't think it is a good idea, but then again, when I have broken things off with men, I really meant it. Hearing something like that ^ would either irritate me or make me roll my eyes because I would see it as a manipulation attempt and as an example of how the guy really didn't give a damn about how I felt. It is all about him and what he wants.

But maybe this girl is more patient than I am...

Really, I think you should try to keep your dignity intact and just learn to accept that things are over. Most of us go through this sort of thing at one time or another, and yes, it sucks royally, but we all get through it, and you will, too. You just have to be willing to move on and stop obsessing.