I think I'm falling in love with a girl who has a boyfriend

[Lukas]

I would tell her you want to date her when she is ready, and then continue with the hands-off approach. You don't want to be the guy whose shoulder she cries on about her ex boyfriend - that is what her girlfriends are for.

she doesnt ever speak of him unless i ask. i actually did ask today so whats the situation with the ex, and she said that well the situation is she wants to forget about him. they werent compatible as people, completely opposite and she was the one that broke it off, not him, but that she still loves him but doesnt plan on seeing him ever again to get over it faster

[Gigabitch]

Lukas, ask her out. Maybe she'll put you off until later, but you need to make your intentions clear.

[Rosebud]

I agree with vash as well. But I do think being a friend is important still, but not the one she talks to about her ex. remember, you don't want to be a rebound guy do you?

[mouser55]

every time u look at her, pepper spray yourself...