How do you girls feel about someone you just met

[Steven715]

No this is where i think where part of the problem is you see she had a phone and we used to text but she was on a contract one you can topup if you use all the minutes or something and it was to expensive for her so she had the phone cut off so now the only way i can contact her is through e-mail or msn and that is it.
To be honest i dont know what to make of all this as our comunication is getting rare like once a week we did e-mail like 3 days on the trot but that was 1 a day sort of thing because of our work. She has a 6 week holiday starting now and i asked her via e-mail to meet up i did say i could even have a day off work that is not a problem and that we could meet in a public place like a pup or something. I still have no reply and she came online the other day and we did talk but i asked her about the e-mail and to that she said that she had not read it yet (Soposabley she has trouble sighing in could be true as i some times have trouble) I wished that i had come out nd asked her when she was online but you know what i did i did not idiot. A couple of weeks prior to this i did say can we meet up and she said yes and we agreed to meet halfway i thort great progress and then she said that she did not want to make a date as her nan was in hospitial and she lived far away. Whitch i thort fair enouth i can understand that before i sent her th asking her out e-mail the last one was asking how her nan was getting on etc.
Sorry for the long reply. and thanks for being patient with me and responding it is a great comfout!(Spelling?) thaks again. Steve

[Steven715]

No not yet but i want to work on that there is a couple of people that i asked to look at this and thay agree with every one that she likes me i think that alot of problems are in my head. once again i thank you for your time on this

[Steven715]

OMG wat happend there your last message gigabitch has gone up 2 spaces so now mine looks like a double post and i am talking to my slef lol nothing new there then!

[Gigabitch]

Oh, join the double-post club, then. Don't worry about it. Worry about your typing.

I don't know, Steven, this is starting to sound like she's avoiding you. I don't think you should give up or anything, just don't count on her.

I think you should e-mail her a nice .mp3 of a song you like. Kind of a gift, but not too personal.

[Steven715]

Oh right that sounds about right for me anyway i wonder why i bother sometimes this is starting to get a real good week with problems with my car and now this i dont know. I dont know why the hell i bother because every thing i try seems to get fu***d up some where all the time. It is a good sergestian thow and i might try it. This is realey starting to turn out good!
Any way i must thank you for all your time you have put into this lost cause i am sure i will be back with anouther one see ya and thanks againe!

[Gigabitch]

Why didn't you just tell me you were a lost cause from the beginning?

Now I just feel so used.....

Damn you, Steven.

[Steven715]

What do you mean?

[Gigabitch]

Kidding. Thought the sarcasm was evident. Hope you don't think I actually want you to be damned.

[Steven715]

Well i was thinking about it all day on top of everything elce! I had a very bad daytoday and been on the upset side of it with everything that is going wrong/on with my crappy life. Howevor i will say sorry if you do feel used i realey have enjoyed your advice and have noted it. I was saying how annoyed i was at every time i TRY to get someone some thing bad happens not to bad! It seems along time for me to have last spoken to her this is because i was upset then and felt that i was not trying hard enouth as in stricking a good convosation but this is me all over! I am useless even with men i dont know. I think i need shooting lol
I have just sent her an e-mail reeding hello ...... how are you not herd from you for a few days hope that you are ok steve x. That is my typicial e-mail to her i do genuingley worry about her and wonder if she is ok It would be nice if she thort the same for me but i dont thing she does or any one would for that matter. Any way on the e-mail side what are your thorts are thay ok?
Thanks for what you have done againe Steve

[Gigabitch]

Doesn't she have this week off? I thought you were going to try to meet- is your car so messed up that you can't after all?

I have never heard a truer statement than "Everything happens at once." It really does. Unfortunately, that means everything bad sometimes. Like for you today. Sometimes you just have to give up & go to bed early, knowing for sure that tomorrow has GOT to be better.

[Steven715]

She does i think but i am working dont forget and i asked if we could meet with in the 6 weeks and i am still waiting for a reply! My car was just a few things of my problems and that sort of added to the things. On a slightley upper note she came online yestoday and tryed to talk to me (First time in ages) But i was not there and when i got home she was not online it was mutch earlier that made me as she made the effot to speek to me so we will see how things go when she next comes online! I am hoping it wont be to long!!!