Friendly or more??

**vashti** · 29-09-06, 09:47 PM

What does "he blanked me" mean?

**purplerose86** · 29-09-06, 09:58 PM

It means he entered the same room as me i looked up to speak and he looked away and then when i went to leave i looked at him and again he didnt bother to look at me.

**vashti** · 29-09-06, 10:02 PM

He might be avoiding you, but that could easily be shyness.

**purplerose86** · 29-09-06, 10:05 PM

As i said i used to see him alot like when i first went into work but now he's like disappeared i dont know if i'm reading too much into it.

**derm** · 29-09-06, 10:09 PM

MMmm

Maybe just maybe you came across a bit tooooo interested and it might have scared him off a bit.

Treat um mean n keep um keen

**vashti** · 29-09-06, 10:09 PM

How much effort are you really willing to put into pursuing him? I mean, I understand trying to look approachable and being friendly so he feels encouraged to ask you out, but this seems like a lot of work. Just be sure he is worth it...

**purplerose86** · 29-09-06, 10:15 PM

Yeah well i didnt come over to interested not like a stalker aleast i wud just smile if i saw him look at me and say hello and stuff to seem friendly. I dunno as Vashti said it is alot of work and as i'm not used to pursuing people generally i'm used to more confident men who are more forthright.

**derm** · 29-09-06, 10:18 PM

Sounds like he's too much hassel.

Get yourself a low cut top, new hair-do, nice perfume, big smile, and the world is your oyster

**purplerose86** · 29-09-06, 11:25 PM

LOL strangely enough i had my hair cut yday and i do look like a diff. person. I agree to begin with it seemed like it was going somewhere now does seem like loads of hassle just for a bloke i dont know very well.

**derm** · 29-09-06, 11:37 PM

Alot of it is in the chase. For guys anyhow.

There is this girl [36] I'm 31. She was showing me a business proposition one night in a hotel lobby. I sorta fancied her and thought she wasn't interested. It sorta became an obsession to get her interested.

After a few more encounters I realised she was very insecure and lacked confidence in herself etc. We flirted alot and she definatly became interested in me but strangly I totally lost all interest in her.

I think it was more because she had low self esteem and confidence in herself as a person even do she seemed very confident in her position, very motivated in her work etc

Strange eh

**purplerose86** · 02-10-06, 08:20 PM

Derm i think you have a point about it being the chase but cud it also b you liked the idea of the woman not the reality like you described her as seemingly confident when she wasnt. And maybe thats why you lost interest.

**derm** · 02-10-06, 08:35 PM

Originally Posted by purplerose86

Derm i think you have a point about it being the chase but cud it also b you liked the idea of the woman not the reality like you described her as seemingly confident when she wasnt. And maybe thats why you lost interest.

Yeah I lost interest in her because she had no confidence in herself as a person, as well as other reasons.

**Gigabitch** · 03-10-06, 12:21 AM

Originally Posted by derm

Yeah I lost interest in her because she had no confidence in herself as a person, as well as other reasons.

But wait, I thought you liked it when they didn't think they were good enough for you.....

**vashti** · 03-10-06, 02:35 AM

Ooh, lucky charms likes older women...

**Gigabitch** · 03-10-06, 02:39 AM

Originally Posted by vashti

Ooh, lucky charms likes older women...

Are you going to amend the Poolboy Classification Rules?

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