Asking a girl out...

[King Zarathu]

Heh, did this post really happen?

Haha! I didn't even notice it! Thanks for pointing it out.

ZARATHU ,ur a SICKO! i bet u neva been for a real date.. no women will ever wanna do to u,so i advice u to D.I.Y urself rather then wait fo sumone to actually fall for ur stupid lines, kid dey b slapping u instead

and fo u my dear fren,just go and ask her out, no matter how u approach, she will say yes

Now, in response to your dumb ass....

Wrong.

[Gigabitch]

Venacava's right. Listen to her.

[King Zarathu]

Venacava's right. Listen to her.

No .

[demoman79]

Thanks for the advice guys, but my biggest fear here is that she will say no because she thought we were both just friends. At this point, I cant really tell if she likes me or not but she always says hi to me and smiles and she sits right next to me in class.

I notice she has alot of guy friends but she seems to fool around with them more (tickle them, steal their stuff and ask them where it went, etc.) she hasnt done that to me but she does talk with me alot.

On the phone she kept talking about how her exboyfriend was such a jerk, etc. What does this mean to me?? Does she want me to ask her out?

also can someone please explain how talking to her in person is alot better than over the phone? im a pretty shy guy (not to her of course, in just a few days i feel like i can talk about anything with her) and have never been very good with talking to girls. i really would like to ask her out in person but im not sure if i have the balls to do it in fear of rejection.

[King Zarathu]

Thanks for the advice guys, but my biggest fear here is that she will say no because she thought we were both just friends. At this point, I cant really tell if she likes me or not but she always says hi to me and smiles and she sits right next to me in class.

I notice she has alot of guy friends but she seems to fool around with them more (tickle them, steal their stuff and ask them where it went, etc.) she hasnt done that to me but she does talk with me alot.

On the phone she kept talking about how her exboyfriend was such a jerk, etc. What does this mean to me?? Does she want me to ask her out?

Maybe, maybe not. The guys that she does play with like that--how does she feel about them? It's possible that she likes you so much that she's too intimidated to spark that kind of shit with you.

[demoman79]

Maybe, maybe not. The guys that she does play with like that--how does she feel about them? It's possible that she likes you so much that she's too intimidated to spark that kind of shit with you.

From what I know, theyre all just friends. A few of them are honestly, not very attractive at all but she still plays around with them. She hasnt even hinted about doing that stuff to me ...maybe your right that she likes me too much that shes a bit intimidated.. . I sure hope thats the case. Anyways, I do this soo much... where I keep liking a girl and I never make a move and they eventually move on. Im not gonna have that happen again, it seems to be real hard to find someone like her.

[King Zarathu]

From what I know, theyre all just friends. A few of them are honestly, not very attractive at all but she still plays around with them. She hasnt even hinted about doing that stuff to me ...maybe your right that she likes me too much that shes a bit intimidated.. . I sure hope thats the case. Anyways, I do this soo much... where I keep liking a girl and I never make a move and they eventually move on. Im not gonna have that happen again, it seems to be real hard to find someone like her.

I'm having that problem right now, too. It's so hard to approach her about it because...well...I don't know. It's extremely hard for me because I've only been rejected once, and I knew I was going to be rejected. I was rejected online, anyway, so it wasn't that bad. But shit dude.... I know exactly how you feel. =/

[demoman79]

I'm having that problem right now, too. It's so hard to approach her about it because...well...I don't know. It's extremely hard for me because I've only been rejected once, and I knew I was going to be rejected. I was rejected online, anyway, so it wasn't that bad. But shit dude.... I know exactly how you feel. =/

It sure does feel good someone out there is like me. While being rejected online would be easier, I probably wouldnt want to ask her online. I really sort of wanna ask over the phone but is that really a bad idea? Only time I talk to her outside of class is random times when Im just walking around campus trying to get to my classes and stuff and basically she just says Hi and smiles. Boy, I tell you her smile just really lights up my day. I guess it really should matter how I ask though, as long as she says yes Ill be the happiest 15 year old in the school.

[Venacava]

Did you even read what I said?? If you follow through with my advice then it's not very likely that you will get rejected, seriously. It wont seem so formal and you're basically just asking her to hang out sometime after school. It doesn't have to be this big date! Small steps.

[demoman79]

Hey sorry bout that. It sounds like a good idea but I was planning to ask her out to a movie this weekend. Is that too fast?

[Gigabitch]

Not if you start now.

[demoman79]

Okay so how does this sound... since I never see her that much outside of class Ill ask if I can walk her to her next period. Then while were walking maybe I should ask her then?

[derm]

Hi all, I'm a Sophmore in High School and just a few days ago, I met probably the girl of my dreams. We talked alot and from what I see, and I asked some of my friends, all signs point to that she likes me too. Anyways, of course I don't want to pass up on this opportunity and I want to ask her out on a date this week. So what would be the best way to approach this? I think it would be better if I asked her alone but she's ALWAYS around her best friends at school. Honestly, I'm not really that good or experienced at asking girls out. And we both talk on AIM ALOT ... and was thinking of asking her out over chat but I heard thats a very, very bad idea. Also, right now she doesn't have a cell phone so I can't ask her over the phone.

You're gonna have to do this one face to face man! No hiding behind a computer-phone etc.

Isolate her from her friends and pop the question, no easy way. Just come out and say it

[King Zarathu]

The only reason I asked online is because she's emotionally unstable and I didn't want her to freak out or anything.

Other than that, I would never ask online. Go for it bro, and keep us updated.

[vashti]

I've only been rejected once, and I knew I was going to be rejected. I was rejected online, anyway, so it wasn't that bad. But shit dude.... I know exactly how you feel. =/

Sorry, skaterboy. I told you that you are just too young for me.