Weird comment?

[vashti]

Well you can be sure if I did say something like that it would be followed by a smack in the head but it would be worth it for a laugh

Well, as long as you can accept the consequences...

[King Zarathu]

Well, as long as you can accept the consequences...

You get spanked whether or not you say something dirty.

As for derm, I agree with derm because he agrees with me. Quit being a god-forsaken pussy and deal with the fact that--well, okay, your boyfriend is ****ing awesome.

[Binxy]

I have some friends who sometimes say the most off the wall things like that. They do it to try to be funny, and usually, because I know that's why they're saying it, I usually do lmao because half the time they're so stupid it is funny. I wouldn't get too upset about it.

The part about noticing women. I guarantee EVERY single guy will notice a pretty girl walk into a room, or almost every guy. Does that mean that they all want to sleep with them, I have no idea, I doubt it, they're just admiring the view. If it gets to the point of them making lewd comments about the women to you making you feel inferior or bad about yourself, then that's crossed the line, but from my experience, the times I've had to actually "worry" about a guy doing something behind my back has been with the guys that secretly observe the females (and yes, subtly is a good word), then go behind my back and make their moves completely surprising the you know what out of me. Everyone has their own personality. Make sure not to smother him too much. He needs to be his own person as much as you need to be yours. If his behavior embarasses you, you could talk to him about it and maybe he'll tone it down, but let him be himself for the most part. If not, then if you all become more of an item, I'm afraid you'll both be miserable.

Just take it as the joke it was meant to be. I think I personally screwed up a great relationship I had with someone because I took things too personally. I should have just let loose a little and had more fun back then. I know how your feeling, but see it for the joke as it was meant to be. Some people struggle for funny things to say, I think he saw an opportunity and took it. Don't sweat the small stuff.

[King Zarathu]

Does that mean that they all want to sleep with them, I have no idea, I doubt it, they're just admiring the view.

Very true. Guys damn well know when something is just made to look at.

[Binxy]

Very true. Guys damn well know when something is just made to look at.

lol true. Girls too, plus, sometimes when the guy opens his mouth to talk it just ruins the view

[Crackerlove]

OK. Well maybe I should ask this then: How would any of you guys feel if it were reversed? Your with your woman and a bunch of guys walk into the room and she seems to take notice and then says "If anyone wants some chips..."

[Binxy]

OK. Well maybe I should ask this then: How would any of you guys feel if it were reversed? Your with your woman and a bunch of guys walk into the room and she seems to take notice and then says "If anyone wants some chips..."

Girls wouldn't say that, they'd know the guys would be over diving for it before she could blink

I totally understand that it made you uncomfortable. I don't know how serious you two are. It sounds like you need to talk to him about it since it obviously has you upset. Joking for one person might not be for another. You need to do what makes you comfortable. I would say the majority of people would take what he said as a joke, something he said just to be funny (even though it was a bad joke). It doesn't matter what any advice we all give you, you need to do what you feel comfortable with. Talk to him tell him how it made you feel and see what he says about it.

[King Zarathu]

OK. Well maybe I should ask this then: How would any of you guys feel if it were reversed? Your with your woman and a bunch of guys walk into the room and she seems to take notice and then says "If anyone wants some chips..."

It's different when a girl says it.

[jurupa]

I have said things like this before around girls, granted I was single at the time (and still single thanks to my curse), but a lot of joke is how you say it. You could say the most sexist thing on the planet to a bunch of girls, but if the delievery is not good then your going to pay for it. Yes there are people that won't like the joke no matter what, but unless you know about it there ain't much you can do about it.

[vashti]

This is really a matter of discretion. There is a big difference between noticing someone who is attractive (something males AND females do) and salivating like a mangy dog when you see them.

[Gigabitch]

Jesus. Hit him with a rolled-up newspaper the next time he acts like that. How mortifying to be sitting next to THAT guy at the party. I feel for you.

[vashti]

For more reassurance, you see that every guy that commented here is in agreement.

Funny, all the women who have commented are ALSO in agreement, and we are smarter than the guys.

[vashti]

Well, at least you will concede he made an ass of himself.

[Mathias]

Funny, all the women who have commented are ALSO in agreement, and we are smarter than the guys.

And this guy didn't agree, either.

[vashti]

And this guy didn't agree, either.

Didn't agree with who?