Help Me out.. Will i get her back

[vashti]

Your counselor should be fired.

Sounds like it to me. You know what they say about people who are employed in the mental health field... they are there for a reason.

[desperate_hubby]

ANYWAY, desperate hubby guy, yes, it sucks that she's into this mutual friend of yours, but the truth is, you've got a kid together and I'll bet she won't forget that if you give her some space and time to remember it.

Right now, though, you've got to back off a bit. You're working her nerve. Just do good things for your kid, as you should. Show her you're a good man.

The fact that your counselor told you that you need to trust her right now after she's been considering involving herself with this other guy gives me a good laugh. Your counselor should be fired.

I agree with you on the same looking from an outsiders angle, but i feel knowing her that i need to trust her because she would definitely come back to me provided that she cares for the kid, which she does and i do not care about her relationship with the friend, as i love her and love her unconditionally. I take this as a test for my love towards her and will continue to love her. If she wanted to leave me and go away she always had the option given the fact she is financially stable and she can support herself on her own. She could have given a divorce herself, why did she wait for me to understand her point. She still cares for me as a friend and did not want to go the ugly way so that it would affect the Kid. The only motive in my life towards the relationship is that i need her in my life as a friend and companion no matter the relationship is bonded by a marriage or not. I do not believe in sex or any romance of that sort right now as we both are not mentally inclined towards that. I first need to understand more and trust her feelings. May be she is right now considering me a bit because of the changes i am doing to myself. i do not want to spoil it by making more advances. I will have to play a waiting game. According to her and my friend and her, the relationship is not something that will lead to sex or marriage. It is something more than friendship, if anyone wants to term that as love, they can but according to them, it is pure friendship. The one aspect that he has been doing and i was not is that he has shown unlimited trust on her these days also knowing that she stays with me and never has asked a question about my behaviour which i have been doing asking what they spoke on chat, on phone etc. I love her and need her in my life as a companion and friend.. I agree with the consellor as she has spoken to her and also knows about her feelings.

Lets see as time goes by.. i will updating the forum with the happenings.. please wish me all the best in my venture and am very pleased with the honest advices that i have been recieving.

[Angelofstorm]

She and I.

[desperate_hubby]

She and I.

I did not get you.. What does that mean