Big Decision (need male and female advice)

[misombra]

i think you refuse to listen and i'm done.

[surfnsand]

I'm just digging into your head(s) and since i solicited the women's perspective, I wanted to make sure there was not undue subjectivity and empathy, so i could understand..never seen this before.

So, any anecdotes help. perhaps when you broke up with a guy but well, it was not so clear in your head.

thanks as always. i am reading and taking it in :-)