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Thread: Would you still date a man who waited a week to call

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    Quote Originally Posted by Steve2004 View Post
    girls who've been victim of the guys who don't call?
    If they don't call at all then you have your answer. period.
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    I expect to wait no more than three days. Longer than that, and I think they must not like me all that much, and I would forget about them.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Ah, heck, who knows what went on with him during that week?

    Since you don't yet know him....if you don't have a million other offers, why not go out with him? Then decide if he is worth going out with again

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    Yes i would. He might of not wanted to look desperate so he left it a week before calling.
    Life is like a dick. When things get hard, **** it.


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    No - under three (or *maybe* four) days is desperate. One week is uncertainty. If he *really* is crazy about you, he wouldn't wait a week.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    I guess we are all different and have different time limits but i would say yes to anything upto a week but after a week then no
    Life is like a dick. When things get hard, **** it.


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    If he can't make time for a simple phone call within four days, I can't make time for him in my life. What more simple way to say, "You are very low on my priority list" than that?

    He shouldn't wait longer to call than it takes food to go bad in the fridge.
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    If you call too much though, won't you come off as being annoying and clingy?

    You need to find that sacred middle ground, right?

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    no you just have to use a little common sense.
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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    no you just have to use a little common sense.
    I don't have common sense

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    lol. well then yes, what you said.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DoesntMatter View Post
    If you call too much though, won't you come off as being annoying and clingy?

    You need to find that sacred middle ground, right?
    What do you mean "calling too much"? Aren't we talking about the first time a guy calls a girl after she gives him her number? That should be done in three days. Afterwards, don't call every day, multiple times a day. Everyone should leave the other person wanting just a little bit more.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Unless you're trying to make her feel like a whore, why would anyone wait four days to call a girl they've just slept with?! I usually call her the next day.

    I mean the game's won. She put out. What are you trying to achieve here?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II View Post
    Unless you're trying to make her feel like a whore, why would anyone wait four days to call a girl they've just slept with?! I usually call her the next day.

    I mean the game's won. She put out. What are you trying to achieve here?

    Exactly. It feels like crap to have a guy do that. I know what it's like and believe me, it does not bring out my best side.
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    I already knew all this information. but are you actually telling me if i don't call a girl for a week or more it's game over ?

    shit... well i usually don't call more than once per week or so because i don't want to come off as clingy or desperate .

    so that means i have to call every single girl on my "list" every week to keep them in "check" ? this all seems a bit too much work .

    i like to go 3-4 weeks unheard of and then call them, so like that it creates some time to be able to have something to talk about , this is of course done to girls that im NOT dating (and that i just have some interest in them) .

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