dont use hair conditioner it will burn honey!!!!
and be happy with what you got like stated above and its how you use it. i mean once its hard who cares do your thang!!!!! but if you still fell self concious about it try some of the stuff mentioned above and milk away!!!! who cares about when its soft honey shit girls know what they look like when they are soft. i personally think that a penis plays tricks, sometimes its tiny and hiding sometimes its semi sometimes its hard and it just dosent matter what it looks like when its soft!!! luck to ya