Am I crazy??? Please help!!!

[Gigabitch]

.... I want to reach a point where I'll accept his rejection gracefully if he decides that she or any other woman is someone he would rather chase after.

Try to reach a point where you can make your own educated decision about whether or not you want to keep him. You act like he's driving the bus and you're just along for the ride. Take some responsibility, and some power.

[IndiReloaded]

How distant is 'long distance', if you don't mind my asking?

Is there any way you can meet his girl-friend and assess whats happening? If you can find out whether any feelings he may have for this gal are unrequited, at least that gives you a starting point for how to discuss this w/him.

If she cares back tho, IMO you're screwed since she's single.

Good luck, I hope things work out for you.

[Junket]

Have you guys actually met?

[Vain]

One way to end a relationship is to try and control your partner to much. I learned that the hard way because I let her control me and that pushed my friends away. Just respect the thin line of controlling him and giving your opinion on a subject and it should be fine. Given he hasn't lost interest in you.

[nuttybuddy]

Hey Giga, I had too much power in the past with him. I abused my power and that's why he was willing to ditch me. So, I'm trying to change in a sense where I learn to let go of power. Right now, I know I sound like I'm powerless, but really... unless he's completely lost interest in me (which i doubt) I think in time, I will regain some of my power, but I am now more aware in keeping my power in check.

Hey IndiReloaded, I have met the girl. She's cute. Enuff said. And we're in different states. All three of us. Thanks for hoping things work out for me.

Hi Vain, thanks for your input. I agree. And I am trying my best.