Anal penetration for men

[Tiay]

wanting to experiment with prostate stuff does NOT make anyone gay. Sure, get toys! Especially the one called Nexus, supposedly much better than the Aneros. DO NOT get any stupid jelly toys. ever. they're toxic. Only 100% non-porous silicone, glass, metal, or hard plastic are acceptable.

do *you* like having a g-spot orgasm? well.. so does he. nothing gay about it whatsoever. And as Fras said, the fact that he couldn't tell you is bad, bad news. He thought you'd reject him. Hiding what gives you pleasure from your partner.. that's the first step on the road to cheating. He (apparently rightly) thought you'd think he was gay. c'mon you know he's not gay, and even if he's bi, so what? In future, make sure he can tell you anything without judgement, and vice versa.

[Charlie Boy II]

Bottom line: He likes to watch guys get f-cked by other guys. That's gay.

He wants you to get a strap on so he can get down on his knees, present, shut his eyes and imagine he's being ****ed by that sweaty specimen who held his gaze a little too long at the gym.

[BarbaraJean]

One time I came home earlier then he thought I would be and he was watching his dvd and I heard him say, "I'm cumming baby, Im cumming....whay the heck is that all about?

[Charlie Boy II]

I reckon you're a troll. Are you a troll barb?

[Tiay]

Bottom line: He likes to watch guys get f-cked by other guys. That's gay.

well, in that case i'd be lesbian. Maybe he's bi? but who cares? He's with you, and he wants to try anal toys. go for it!

[Charlie Boy II]

Who cares? You wouldn't care if your boyfriend had a secret desire to have other men stick their dicks up his ass? I'm all for being open-minded but there's no need to be moronic on principle.

[vashti]

What the hell are those videos? Gay porn or something?

Shemales are men that have breasts and male genitalia. They look like women until they are undressed. Maybe they are men in the midst of sex change surgeries? I dunno. I believe they have taken hormones that promote breast tissue growth.

[BarbaraJean]

It just seems gay to me

[vashti]

Actually, the shemale attraction is worse than the gay possibility to me.

[BarbaraJean]

Worse then gay? I mentioned if he would like to use toys and then I showed him online some toys. He said to me, why don't you (meaning me) get a dildo for myself. But I was asking him what he wanted, you think that he wanted me to get that so I could use it on him? I have told him I don't masturbate so why would I want a dildo. I just can't get over the fact that he could be gay or bi.

[misombra]

i have a couple of gay friends who put ads out for a guy to have a 3 some with and most of the calls they get are from "straight," married men.

[BarbaraJean]

We got toys, we just have not used them yet. He told me we could use them this weekend. Once I found the shemale dvd. I asked him what he liked about them and he said that he thinks of the "woman" as having a strap on but not as men with boobs or woman with c@cks.
Anyways. I have read up on prostate message and from what I have read, yes some men can orgasm this way. Some without even "spilling" a drop of cum. The two times that I have tried my finger while giving him a blow job, he has "acted" differently when he orgasms. And he doesn't "cum" and he can keep going.
I know he isn't gay, for he wouldn't be with me. But I'd be a little worried that he is bi because I wouldn't want him going some where else to get this pleasure. I told him if he likes it, I will do it for him w/o judgement. We have been together for 2 years and he is just now mentioning this to me. So what says he hasn't gone some where else to get this pleasure. If it is something he enjoys..Can he go 2 years w/o it? He said he has never had anything like that done to him. So I would assume he is telling the truth. I hope so anyways. He's the one who swore to God he doesn't watch pornos. But now I know he does. He knows he can tell me anything. I am very open minded and if I were in a new relationship, that might not tickle my fancy, but if he gets pleasure out of it ( and where we aren't a new couple) I am up to trying anything except a 3 some. Cause I don't share with anyone.

[Gigabitch]

I have told him I don't masturbate so why would I want a dildo.

RED FLAG, honey. What's up with that?

[vashti]

We got toys, we just have not used them yet. He told me we could use them this weekend. Once I found the shemale dvd. I asked him what he liked about them and he said that he thinks of the "woman" as having a strap on but not as men with boobs or woman with c@cks.
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I'm not buying that. I am not a huge purveyor of porn, but I am pretty sure that it is easy enough to get videos of lesbians doing each other with strap-ons.

[Only-virgins]

The anal thing is normal. It is not like that is a sign for being gay or anything. There is nerve receptors there that during an orgasm cause that area to feel orgasmic just like the tip of the penis.