Boyfriend slept with hooker at stag do

[mustang07]

I'm sorry to hear about this, I would never cheat on my girlfriend, back when we were going out, and i knew she would never cheat on me. Maybe you dont trust him as much as you would like too. Think about this, do you trust other people in general? or is this an internal problem? Is there anything in the emails that says "I hope my girlfriend doesnt find out"... or "i shouldnt have done that" etc.?

If you do find out he cheated on you however, you should not take him back, ever.

[ftheunion]

Ok then. But I am a skeptic.........so how can anything ever be asserted, even conclusions based on evidence? Its ok to leave him, but why rip his heart out? Dunno, I don't believe in love anymore, even though our feelings are intense and 'real'. There isn't anything I can't doubt though. Good luck.

Just seems a cycle of burn and be burned. The hostility seems apocolyptic and unhealthy stress. The better person forgives.

[Gigabitch]

So hostile these posts, especially setting his crap on fire?!.................hardcore.

Its natural for guys to do that stuff when they are drunk. Keep in mind he wasn't in a critical thinking mindframe.

What if you were dating a girl and she ****ed some random skeezy guy, possibly infecting herself with herpes? Would that be okay with you? Forgivable?

Or is it just guys that get away with acting like pigs?

Just seems a cycle of burn and be burned. The hostility seems apocolyptic and unhealthy stress. The better person forgives.

We'll see how you feel about it when it happens to you.

[tooxshort]

ftheunion said it's a "cycle", but not for this situation.

Be burned, burn, then bye bye birdy.