lesbian gridlock

[Charlie Boy II]

To be honest I find the sexual dynamics of lesbians and the lesbian community very strange but interesting.

For example, one of my girl friends recently started seeing a girl. As a show of support I went with her to a lesbian night at a local bar where they were playing "perfect snatch".

This one really hot chick, sits on a chair and asks these other three lesbians who she can't see various questions. Based on their questions the hot one decides which of the three she will take on her date based on their answers.

Anyway, one of this hot chick's questions was:

"What's your idea of a perfect date?"

Two of the girls answered with fairly standard answers about picnics and trips to the beach.

The third one, however was a real big fat, buzz cutted dyke. Her answer?

"I'd take her home and fist the f-ck out of her."

And do know which one the hot contestant chose? The dyke!!



I think that the reason some lesbians .

[Moonchild]

I think that the reason some lesbians .

I think that's not a complete sentence.

[Gigabitch]

I think that's not a complete sentence.

I'm imagining many, many reasons why he had to stop typing. Perhaps he's fisting his girlfriend, or maybe got a cramp in his fingers.

From fisting his girlfriend.

[Charlie Boy II]

I agree that sluttiness is not determined only by exposure to dick. I think there can totally be lesbian sluts. It's about having sex without emotional involvement, IMO.

Yes but I'm still not convinced that non-penetrative "sex" still carries the same weight as hetero sex does.

For example, you will often hear lesbians talk about sex in the same flippant, agressive vein males can be often heard discussing it. If those girls were talking about hetero sex in the same way, I think they would be looked at very differently.

[Gigabitch]

For example, you will often hear lesbians talk about sex in the same flippant, agressive vein males can be often heard discussing it.

Those dirty, dirty lesbian sluts!

[Moonchild]

often hear lesbians talk about sex in the same flippant, agressive vein males can be often heard discussing it.

I'd argue "often"; I guess it depends on what kind of people you're hanging around with and the situation. I don't think I've ever heard it for any situation (either gender), but I hang around with people who, as far as beliefs go, are generally like myself. But if I did hear it, I'd think just as badly of them as I do of women who'd speak of sex with men that way, and the same of men who would speak of sex with either gender that way. It's really quite stupid.

[vashti]

I remember reading somewhere that over time, lesbians have a less active sex life than gay men or heterosexuals. (Don't know why I thought of that...)

[Charlie Boy II]

Obviously I'm generalising, but if you want to be pedantic, let's say that on average lesbians tend to behave in a more sexually agressive manner.

My girl worked in a bar that had a dyke night once a week. Now, she is most gay-friendly individual I've ever met but she hated dyke night. The advances she got from the dykes were cruder and more agressive than anything she copped from males.

Now my point isn't to have a go at gay women, but I think it's interesting that some gay women will adopt the role of sexual agressor (and then some) in the absence of the traditional male/female balance.

[Charlie Boy II]

I remember reading somewhere that over time, lesbians have a less active sex life than gay men or heterosexuals. (Don't know why I thought of that...)

I guess there's only so much pussy you can eat...

[vashti]

Now my point isn't to have a go at gay women, but I think it's interesting that some gay women will adopt the role of sexual agressor (and then some) in the absence of the traditional male/female balance.

...just as some men will adopt the more feminine role in a homosexual relationship.

[Charlie Boy II]

Yeah I know, but we're talking about lesbians here.

[Moonchild]

XD I find it interesting that some women can be more man than men.

[vashti]

I think on a biological level it makes sense.

All people start out biologically as female, and male genitalia develop in the presence of lots of testosterone. There must be a lot of "grey area" in between the amount of hormone needed to develop male characteristics, hence varying degrees of masculinity.

[Charlie Boy II]

And some men can be more woman than women?

[Moonchild]

Yeah I know, but we're talking about lesbians here.

XD I insert what you've already said. <3