Weight gain

[Illusional]

well look on the bright side of this, her tits will also get bigger.

raverboy

[tooxshort]

Okay okay ... it's not a crazy amount of weight ... I just mentioned that it was noticeable ... I didn't make a huge issue about it, but since it had only been a couple of months, I was wondering if the gain would continue to happen ... I just saw it in her face ... you know ... that jawline thing? I was just being honest with her about it ... Btw - this all started with me saying,"Hey, you got bigger..." ... Not the smoothest thing to say, but damnit, we got a 16 hr time difference and I'm not as sweet when I wake up!

She does say she'll work out with me ... I'll lay off of her ... But doesn't anyone just wake up feeling like a dickhead sometimes too? I was probably in that mode ... and yes, Giga ... I'm going to have to make it up to her somehow ...

I think some of you are right ... Maybe when we're together, we'll start doing more activities as a couple ... It's true ... She can't really do much anymore, but hang out with her family or stay home. Not many of her friends are single, but I know she doesn't like to feel like a 5th wheel ...

And Fras, all the paperwork is still being processed ... it's moving along well though, so she can hopefully be with me early next year ... (Sorry ... No New Mexico...) ... we've been planning to be together since the very beginning ... It's just the National Visa Center takes forever to process!

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Oh yeah ... how do I explain to her that it's not a big deal and that I didn't mean that I would love her less or anything like that??

[Illusional]

simply tell her the truth. tell her than it didn't mean to come off as if you were a dick, but it wasn't really a well thought out plan. as long as you're honest, things will work out fine.

raverboy

[Henry123]

Henry! No! Bad Henry!

Shorty, I think you need to accentuate the positive, here. Yeah, you're probably going to be making up for that little slip of the tongue for a LONG time. May as well start now.

It seems to work on the Jerry Springer show.

[vashti]

I've always heard it takes 5x as many compliments to make up for a criticism. Just tell her how beautiful she is to you, and how you can't wait to see her, etc... Worry about the weight when you have her in person.

[Illusional]

Worry about the weight when you have her in person.

haha it's like sweeping the dusk under the rug and when it finally builds to a noticeable amount, then you bring out the vacuum.

raverboy

[misombra]

no new mexico?!?!

damnnnnnnnnnnn it!

you would've hated it anyway. She would be over at my house all the team eating chili and stuff.

[tooxshort]

Oh, come on! I'm sure you cook other things ... I think she'll be cooking a lot since she's good at it ...

[Kiechi]

Chicken adobo and pancit haha

[Illusional]

did i hear someone bring out some salsa??

raverboy