i want girl opinion...and help...

[squirrley]

typicall. she wants you to pine over her. Give her ONE call get it out on the table see where it goes then make your decision. Bail or hang in. I think you might want to consider bailing at this point.

[Drogba88]

squirrley what do you think that she thinks now about this whole thing...i believe in your women instinct...tell me truth...

[Drogba88]

i am very thankful for all girls opinion...every girl who reads this story tell me what you think...what should i do...thanks to everyone....just tell me TRUTH....

[jane]

i am very thankful for all girls opinion...every girl who reads this story tell me what you think...what should i do...thanks to everyone....just tell me TRUTH....

sounds like ya kinda blew her off.. it was me, I would think you werent interested in me.. I would think you either have someone or your just not into me

[Drogba88]

how much does she care about me...why is not she answering on my messages....

[vashti]

It sounds like she wanted to be your girlfriend. If you want her to be your girlfriend, tell her so, apologize for being a bastard over all these months, ask her to forgive you, and then act like a proper boyfriend.

[Gigabitch]

Drogba, I was being diplomatic when I said you were cold. I think Vashti's just put it a little more clearly.

If you don't actually know what you did that wasn't nice, you have problems that may be too big for this board to handle. If I ever found out that some guy was treating my daughter the way you've treated this girl, I'd forbid her to ever speak to you again.

You've been insufferably rude. Did your mama raise you to treat girls like that? What the hell is wrong with you? And more to the point, what was wrong with this girl, that she threw herself at you that way when you clearly disrespected her?

[Drogba88]

why was i bastard and rude..explain me what i did...i want to improve myself...i did not want to show her how much i care about her because i did not want to rush...when we finally first time meet..we talk and every day we heard from messages...one week i call her every day and she from that 7 days was out with me only 2 times...she did not want to go out because she had guests...and one day she did not want to go out because it was rain...how stupid is that...!?!?

what should i do now?????

[squirrley]

I told you what to do. Call her ONCE explain yourself and see how she responds. You will know what to do then. You cant keep beating a dead horse. You might have one chance left so use that opportunity to your advantage!

[vashti]

why was i bastard and rude..explain me what i did...???

Based on your original post, it is hard to believe you don't know what you did wrong. I am going to go out on a limb here and suggest perhaps you did not articulate the nature of your relationship well because you have not mastered the English language. What is your native language? Maybe we have another poster who can converse with you in that language.

[Drogba88]

so i should tell her what i think..that i care about her very much and that i miss her...or what...tell me exactly what you think i should say to her...or what should i write to her in message

[Drogba88]

i know english very well...so tell me on english what i did wrong

[Gigabitch]

You treated her very, very casually when she wanted to be the star in your sky. I'll bet she cried a lot over you.

[Drogba88]

i dont think so...she sometimes said to me that this is hard time for her and that she need to think about everything...but i cant believe that she cried..because if she cried that would mean that she really cares about me...and she did not show that to me enough...

[Drogba88]

i dont understand one thing...why did she say last time when we spoke that it is better to be friends now...and i ask her if she really thinks that we can be friends for now and hide our real feelings...she answer to me yes...what does this mean..?????gigabitch what do you suggest to me now....???thank you for your help