Are all women egocentric???

[CAM]

Ego comes from the Greek word for "I am" I suppose that if you are aware of yourself, your existence, in any way, then you are by definition at least a little egocentric.

At the end of the day, very few people (usually, just your closest blood relatives) will love you and value you more than you do yourself.

I wouldn't flirt with the ugly friend (as Mis refers to her) to get the "egocentric" woman's attention. 9 times out of 10, women who are interested in you will let you know and will give you avenues to approach them. If they aren't that interested, is it really that important that you convince them of your worth?

Live your life, live it well, and good things will happen.

[GrkScorp]

gskorp, why would you do something like that? that is very manipulative and cunning of you, don't you think? to flirt with the "ugly friend" specifically to make the other girl feel bad about herself. i'm willing to bet that in 90 percent of those scenarios the effect was you looking like a cunning, manipulative person who is upset because the snobby girl doesn't like you.

some girls are aware of your sincerity gskorp. i always am. i've had many guys come at me just to get at my friends. i've also been the snobby girl that doesn't want to talk to anybody. the snobby girl that doesn't want to talk to anybody doesn't care what you're doing anyway. she knows you all are scum and as long as you're not talking to her, that's okay.

i couldn't see flirting with an ugly guy because i want to knock some egocentric guy off his pedestal. they can do that for themselves. i would much rather just leave him alone and talk to a person i truly like.

well.. quite a mouth-full there.. the only reason I do that.. is to teach people like that a lesson.. now, after the 11th grade in high school.. I tossed out all the BS my parents told me about women to prevent me from dating.. and figured out women to a science.. by age.. by stage in life.. and for as long as I can pin-point what group they fall in.. I can appeal to what they're looking for.. (with the exception of some groups.. simply because i'm not old or wealthy enough yet)..

now.. I know it's mean.. very mean.. and trust me.. i'm not about to blow some nice girl's self-esteem because she rejected one of my friends... BUT.. I will go out of my way.. to bash and make that one b*tch feel like sh*t.. these women know who they are.. and you're right.. now it's not so much about getting even for all those times I saw someone get rejected.. now, I get pleasure from it.. it's actually pretty fun.. it makes amazing wingman practice.. (because, I am the dedicated wingman.. and now that i'm still single.. is when i'm most useful and have the least inhibition)..

as for snobby girls.. just because someone is snobby doesn't make them a bad person.. I have a "face-theory".. I honestly think you can tell almost everything you need to know about a person by what they are wearing, but mostly by their face! Think about it for a second.. they look at themselves in the mirror every morning and night, etc.. don't you think this has impacted them to a large degree over their life? furthermore, the muscles and expressions in each person's face speak volumes about them.. so, if you pay close enough attention.. it's not really that hard to spot a genuine b*tch apart from a pack of semi-confident to overly-confident women..

now.. the ethics behind all this... I don't think i'm doing anything illegal.. i'm flirting with "notties" or as everyone else knows them "cockblockers".. so that my friends can go in and get whoever they're interested in.. sometimes it doesn't happen for them.. too bad.. boo hoo.. we move on.. but if there's someone that really deserves an ego-bashing.. I don't care if anyone from the group is interested in her or not (if they are I tell them NO).. I'll go out of my way to bring her to her knees and go back home toss out all her dresses.. down a tub of ice cream.. and cry like she's on Oprah.. in fact.. we group raid sometimes.. I almost orgasm inside when we do.. ahh : ) can you imagine a group of guys walking over and hitting on all your friends and paying NO attention to you? showering them with flattery.. showing interest.. the whole 9 yards.. it's perfect..

but no.. we don't do this to women who reject someone from the group.. that would be mean.. i've taught everyone to be a man and cope with rejection (just go on and move along to other women).. but it makes for a great way to get some of these guys into a group of women.. it's not the best way (the best way is solo, which will also make you seem more confident).. so we "raid".. because that's what it is in essance.. we're all there to help an amigo get who he wants.. and then leave.. we come in.. give attention to all the notties; I usually get stuck with the queen nottie (the ugliest girl in the group who's sole purpose in life is to keep her good-looking friends single and miserable so she can nurture them with generic advice and compassion).. so.. after the queen nottie has been neutralized.. the amigo.. and the amigo alone will start to pay attention to his target (the girl he wants; and the one the rest of us have been neglecting).. why does this work every time?

well.. because attraction is relative.. and if you're surrounded by a group of guys who are hitting on your friends.. you're starting to feel a little jealous and attention-thirsty.. all of a sudden.. this guys warmly introduces himself.. and nothing is in the way of the two of you getting it on.. so relative to the other guys (who seem like @sswh0le at that moment..).. the amigo is awsome.. and before you know it.. she goes home thinking.. I met this amazing guy today.. I can't wait till he calls me..

[vashti]

now, after the 11th grade in high school.. I tossed out all the BS my parents told me about women to prevent me from dating.. and figured out women to a science.. by age.. by stage in life.. and for as long as I can pin-point what group they fall in.. I can appeal to what they're looking for.. (with the exception of some groups.. simply because i'm not old or wealthy enough yet)..

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Bahahaha! I love how some males think they have a clue.

[GrkScorp]

Bahahaha! I love how some males think they have a clue.

: )

I love how most women think some of us don't

[misombra]

you are such a manipulator.

i'd be shocked if your games ever found you a respectable friend or partner.

[IndiReloaded]

please say you're joking!

Why should I say I'm joking?

[GrkScorp]

you are such a manipulator.

i'd be shocked if your games ever found you a respectable friend or partner.

Well now.. I don't think that's fair to say..

I only take female techniques.. and expand on them.. and thus far.. i'm more than satisfied..

[Charlie Boy II]

In the real world I get on exceptionally well with females. I'm not talking about dating, I befriend females easily and I enjoy their company. My best friend is female I work well with females, I'm close with my sister and aside from a few quirks I view most females as worthwhile human beings.

As I read the original post it just struck me that that might be because I harbour no resentment towards them from past betrayals or negative experiences. Since my teenage years I've had a succession of worthwhile, loyal girlfriends and my mother is an absolutely amazing woman.

Anyhow, all I can add is the rather obvious point that it is a little imbecilic to write off half the world's population because of a few negative experiences.

[miSSleepy]

Why should I say I'm joking?

As far as I know, the Law of Attraction is a whole lot of bull crap created as a scam, a scam that's working very well.

[misombra]

Well now.. I don't think that's fair to say..

I only take female techniques.. and expand on them.. and thus far.. i'm more than satisfied..

don't blame females because you're a manipulator. males and females are known to be manipulative. it's your choice to be that way or not.

if females jumped off a bridge would you expand on that too?

[Charlie Boy II]

Scorp do you have any idea of what a dickhead you come across as?

[Gribble]

Don't try to help him. The more men like him roaming this green Earth the more women left for sensible men.

[Charlie Boy II]

I agree, actually. Responding to his posts is like stroking his cock - all you get is more jizz.

[GrkScorp]

I agree, actually. Responding to his posts is like stroking his cock - all you get is more jizz.

ahaah.. oh wow.. you crack me up.. that's actually not the case.. it takes forever to get jizz out of that thing.. so I do what I can to find other forms of pleasure..

anyway.. enough with the cheap-shots.. lol.. the truth of the matter is.. if it's one of the two geneders which has earned the title of "manipulator" through the years.. hands down.. it's women..

i'm not saying all women are that way.. but unfortunately.. there are alot more women out there which are simply miserable, ugly, and just plain b*tchy.. compared to the small amount of men who are fed up and know how to strike back..

if someone is a d*ckhead.. the only way to properly put them in place is to be twice the d*ckhead they are.. and that's all i'm doing.. and it works out lovely..

that's not really who I am most of the time.. or with nearly all other people.. that's simply how I am towards a rather small and specific type of individuals.. I get along with women of all ages.. because I love people by default.. unless they give me some reason not to.. (in which case I become a different person)..

[GrkScorp]

don't blame females because you're a manipulator. males and females are known to be manipulative. it's your choice to be that way or not.

if females jumped off a bridge would you expand on that too?

ugh.. why do you always have this tendency to over-generalize.. unless you just like trolling on the forum..

I think I was more than specific as to which type of women I do this to.. and how uncommon it is that I stop a genuine b*tch from time to time..

I don't blame females.. I mean, nature made them one way, made men an other way.. and both sexes do what they must to interact.. but I feel compelled to punish and put in place rare instances of rogue-reckless-female behavior that genuine b*tchy women exhibit.. I have friends that look great, that are great guys, with great jobs, and the works.. and there's always a woman or two in their life.. (not one that rejected them, or hurt them, or small immaterial crap like that).. but one that "for no reason really" just put them through hell and toyed with their emotions to the point where thier self-image and confidence was rock bottom.. why? because they thought it was funny..

When I do it.. I don't do it to random women, I do it to women who deserve it.. AND not just for fun, but because they really need to be set in place.. if you have no idea what i'm talking about.. that's a good thing.. it means you're not one of these women..

Am I manipulative.. YEAH! are you telling me you're not? or anyone for that matter? We manipulate people every day.. sometimes is just minor manipulation.. sometimes is major.. but it's still manipulating..