I have already told her that I wont stick around if she continues to be in contact with him and she understands she has to make a decision. She knows that he wants her back(she hasn't went back to him). she feels that I am the better man for her and there's no doubt in my mind that she cares for me alot. There's just that pain there that she keeps questioning. I just need her to realize that that's part of being in a relationship that wasn't good. She has no doubt that her feelings for me are real.