im prego...and don't know if i should keep it?

[Only-virgins]

Allrite...I know it's a little bit more confusing than that... I'm now 26 yrs old. I recently got out of a 6 yr relationship, and started dating another guy who is now 36yrs (i like older guys)we hit it off, we enjoyed each others company for about a few months, but we were never together. Now I'm pregnant by the guy and he wants nothing to do with me but to have an abortion. My heart wants to keep the child, and raise is on my own. He said he would be finanically responsible which he has no choice in that matter but that's it. Then again, I could have an abortion and end it all there. My ex knows about the situation and is very supportive, he's obviously not for abortion, but would want to raise the child as his own. I dont think its fair for him because i dont love him like i should, even though he bends over backwards for me. I feel like I would be settling into a mess i already got out of. I know there is other options out there besides abortion cuz i am now about a little over 8 weeks pregnant. I told myself if i didn't have an abortion this week i would never get one. What do u think i should do?

Tired and confused....

Did you just say that your EX is willing to take care of the kid as his own? What the hell is wrong with some of the men these days? What a chump. Some dude bangs his girl and makes her pregnant and than the idiot decides to take care of the kids...I am going to live a happy life I can tell because I'll just find chumps like him to do my work.

Exactly.

Would you believe my girlfriend got the preggy-scare when she missed her period and was reporting getting nauseous in the shower?

WE'VE NEVER EVEN HAD SEX.

Doesn't that imply something? you know? that she is getting it somewhere else? Otherwise it obviously is something else since it is not possible to get pregnant with out the sex...duh.

[Mish]

I think you are in no way ready for the responsibility of caring for a child, and should consider adoption.

+1

Consider the pain of labour and giving up a child to a better home as a much needed learning experience to not be in a situation of having "accidents" again in the future.

[vashti]

I don't think adoption is a good thing for a child.

What a freakin' bizzarre thing to say.

[Junket]

Doesn't that imply something? you know? that she is getting it somewhere else? Otherwise it obviously is something else since it is not possible to get pregnant with out the sex...duh.

No, it's not that. She's a huge worrier outside of sex, we literally were trying to think of any situation where any sperm even came close to her vagina. The hysteria lasted about 6 hours. Then we realized how dumb we were being.

I almost quit our non-sex as it was.

[Charlie Boy II]

yeah sounds like maybe you guys should hold off for a while

[Illusional]

well being that you aren't really thinking with your head right now, consider this option... are you ready to face 18 of the hardest years of your life?? if you are ready for that, think of this,... will your child get all that it deserves for the next 18 years of its life??

you might have the heart and devotion towards having this child, but if you can barely support yourself, then how do you expect to support another??

raverboy