who should pay for first date?

**solferina** · 29-01-08, 03:41 AM

girl I am telling u my bf has payed for me like 5 times and we have been together for 1 year. Its just terrible to see other guys paying for their gf and ur guy being chep . I can afford paying fo myself too but its kind of sweet wen he pays. and the other thing is that sometimes he makes me buy him sth to eat on my way and how come he always "forget" to give my my money and i always remember .Its really stupid being with a cheap bastard

**Gigabitch** · 29-01-08, 04:29 AM

My friend Lissie is very wise. She says guys will always tell us what their flaws are from the very beginning if we only listen.

The fact that he asked YOU out and then said he wanted you to pay for him but reluctantly agreed to pay for himself (not you) because he has a penis is just as clear as can be.

1) He's a cheap bastard.
2) He has some gender-focused resentments
3) He has some kind of Tourette's Syndrome or something. Doesn't he have any idea what a jackass he appears to be when he says such things?

There may be good reasons to date this guy, but you haven't mentioned any of them. Are there any?

**bloodtippedrose** · 29-01-08, 03:54 PM

Im kinda in a weird situation :/ I was asked out to dinner by a guy at my work who is cute as hell so I accepted but his license was taken away so he cant drive so already Im weirded out how I have to pick him up and drive him in a place I dont know my way around.. If it goes my way I will drive and pay the tip. we both work at kmart so i know we both have no money

but yeah I dont know.. I feel I should be an adored little prize instead of have to be the guy ;P I am 13 yrs younger than him

**vashti** · 29-01-08, 10:14 PM

Hmm... 13 years older with no license and working at KMart? Why are you dating him again?

**bloodtippedrose** · 30-01-08, 03:27 AM

hes really cute and has a positive outlook on everything. In other words I just want in the guys pants.

**IndiReloaded** · 30-01-08, 06:41 AM

Originally Posted by vashti

I think whoever asks should pay, and it is in very poor taste to invite someone on a date and then ask them to pay for themself.

+1

And to OV's comment about dinner/going out to eat: how about coffee or dessert, rather than a whole meal? Or lunch at a fun eaterie? It doesn't have to be a candlelit dinner each time. Boooring.

**Mish** · 30-01-08, 08:48 AM

Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose

hes really cute and has a positive outlook on everything. In other words I just want in the guys pants.

There should be more girls like you

**BVSensation27** · 30-01-08, 09:21 AM

Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose

hes really cute and has a positive outlook on everything. In other words I just want in the guys pants.

haha.. then get to it.. you don't need him to pick up and go out

**Illusional** · 30-01-08, 11:15 AM

Originally Posted by Only-virgins

I'm not getting fat. Hell no. Neither will my girl.

that's what everyone says until their metabolism finally slows to a crawl.

raverboy

**bloodtippedrose** · 30-01-08, 12:46 PM

Originally Posted by BVSensation27

haha.. then get to it.. you don't need him to pick up and go out

why just get some when you can get some AND a free dinner? ..yeah.. yeah

**Tired** · 11-02-08, 07:46 PM

person who invites should pay both ways the first time......then its my opinion costs should be split from then on unless its a special occasion

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