After a few dates - Silence!

[thealoneone]

Thinking about this, my confidence has gone.

The last 2 relationships were ended by the girls, then I meet someone else, then I dont hear from her again. Then went on another date recently and silence again.

I dont understand. Is it me?

[BrokenPieces]

Being treated that way undoubtedly makes you question yourself. I've been through the same thing: guy comes along, hang out and talk all the time, everything seems fine - drops off the face of the planet. You figure it has to be you, especially if it keeps repeating.

It could be the kind of girls you've been dating haven't been the right sort and you need to use them as examples of the type to avoid. Or if not that then you just haven't found the right girl yet and need to give it time. Don't blame yourself, though - look at it as their loss. You have to remain confident and not lose self esteem, (even though it's hard) because that is what will attract the attention of a girl.

[Mish]

Thinking about this, my confidence has gone.

The last 2 relationships were ended by the girls, then I meet someone else, then I dont hear from her again. Then went on another date recently and silence again.

I dont understand. Is it me?

Don't sweat it. Girls are ussually the ones to end things anyway (too emotional). Always strive to be a better person than you already are, but don't go into questioning yourself based on these experiences, it's a road to oblivion.

[babycarrot]

To me it sounds like she was just too much of a *** to come out and say that she was through. No interested girl just ignores their guy for THAT long, who knows why? Im not going to lie, I have "tested" guys before, and played some games, but if you text her and she waited days.. then screw it.

[thealoneone]

Yeah thats what I now believe, she even put a block on my number! Totally shocking behaviour. Her loss, and her loss bigtime.