Girlfriend Issues

[Cain]

I really don't know at this point. She also tells me about the guys who hit on her at work, and try and get her to leave me, and she continues to be friends with them. At this point I don't know, I'm just horrible at relationships I guess.

This right here would be what would cause me to leave her.

If she respected your relationship, she wouldn't be friends with guys who were trying to convince her to leave you.

[clearskies]

Might be she is making it up to arouse ur jealousy .. or she is harrassed or something. Put the good reason first.

[Cain]

If she's doing it simply to arouse his jealousy, she's a drama craving attention seeker. That's stupid.

[clearskies]

but if he is just neglecting her, what wd she do otherwise?

[Cain]

That's IF he is neglecting her. From what he's said, he's there for her, he takes her on trips, he attempts to talk to her... he's shown no instances where he's neglected her.

[clearskies]

That is what man feels from his pt of view, what about her pt of view... it might differ. that is why she tends to act like that ..

[Junket]

Give her a warning but please for God's sake dont break with her. Be tolerant and still let her feel u r jealous, ONLY if she did nt respect ur jealousy, at that stage i 'd say she does not deserve you. I always hoped my hubby wd feel jealous while he didnt care.

Where are you from that you never want people to break it off?

Here in America, we're not so limited to people in our local village. People are so different, with varying backgrounds that sometimes it is simply unreasonable to try to force them to change. That the best option for both parties is to break it off and move on.

[clearskies]

i have been in the UK for a long time and u know how Brits are conservative sometimes..

[lesa]

That is what man feels from his pt of view, what about her pt of view... it might differ. that is why she tends to act like that ..

Sometimes you do not see the true character of a person until after being in the relationship for a while. If they are not compatible then why stay and torture each other?

[clearskies]

convinced... started to believe break up might have benefits

[Cain]

That is what man feels from his pt of view, what about her pt of view... it might differ. that is why she tends to act like that ..

Well, considering she isn't here to post about her point of view, we can only base our advice on what we read.