What do women do for men?

[Junket]

I don't wanna be pampered , just don't want to have to do it If i get nothing in return.

Then don't.

Who's making you?

If you're involved in a relationship that is clearly one-sided, don't stick around like a little wuss, and break it off.

It's really that simple, dude.

[lastwish]

This post is actually kind of disturbing to me. I think a relationship should be roughly 50/50. A women who lets herself get that loose speaks volumes for the respect she has for herself.

[clearskies]

i agree on 50 / 50...fair enough indeed but who sticks to that? some people only take & never give

[1averagejoe]

I don't know about you, but my girlfriend plays videogames with me, and cooks me dinner, and gives me sex, and rents us movies, and generally speaking, boosts my ego.

Where can I find one?

[DoesntMatter]

There's at least 1 in New Orleans

But OP, if you get sex out of it I'd consider that a fair trade

[sum41fan]

Doesntmatter, how is that fair? Sex=the world given to you. 30% of women sleep on the first date. It would be significantly cheaper for a man to just sleep around than be in a relationship and he can get a new woman everyday.

[DoesntMatter]

Sex=the world given to you. 30% of women sleep on the first date.

Bullshit



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[Tone]

If girls are so 'unfair' you could always try dating men.

[sum41fan]

There's at least 1 in New Orleans

But OP, if you get sex out of it I'd consider that a fair trade

If girls are so 'unfair' you could always try dating men.

But you can't change sexuality so it wouldn't work.

[DoesntMatter]

But you can't change sexuality so it wouldn't work.

I think Tone was suggesting you wouldn't have to

[IndiReloaded]

In a relationship or marriage men have to

-pay/plan all dates
-plan and pay for vacations
-give massages
-focus entirely on her sexual pleasure
-hold her to sleep
-cook dinners and make picnics
-give expensive gifts
-wait on her
-provide financially
-do all the yard work and fixing stuff
-do half the cooking and cleaning
-make more sacrifices

So what do women do for men?

I'm a woman. My husband & I share duties according to interest, time availability & ability:

My portion of your criteria:
-pay/plan approx 1/2 dates (we alt Friday pms)
-plan and pay for travel (I'm the better organizer & foreign language speaker so that's my job)
-take care of contraceptive needs
-take care of him/family when they are ill
-make sure he gets to the dentist & doc each year
-make sure he exercises
-cook 6/7 days of dinner
-we consult on expensive gifts
-bring him a beer if I get home from work first
-provide financially
-take care of family finances
-he does yard/grass, I do flowers
-we both do home repairs & maintenance

-make more sacrifices -- NO!

A sacrifice implies dissatisfaction with a decision. Noone in a healthy should be 'sacrificing' anything. Either make your choices w/eyes wide open or discuss further until you come to a mutually acceptable agreement. This can mean you end up doing something you don't enjoy, but you might trade w/your partner for some other duty.

You should break up w/your partner if you are so unhappy.

[misombra]

i think it's very selfish of people to think about what others do for them all the time. if you do something for somebody, it should be genuine and from the heart, and not because you're looking to get something in return.

people do small things for each other all the time that are often taken for granted because somebody wants something bigger.

people want the moon, and the rest of the universe on the side.

[DoesntMatter]

people want the moon, and the rest of the universe on the side.

Not me misombra. I just want you

[Mish]

do u think they r devils? i think 80% if not more are devilish

I would say it's more like 100% of humans are devilish

Especially the ones who judge

[boobaa]

i think it's very selfish of people to think about what others do for them all the time. if you do something for somebody, it should be genuine and from the heart, and not because you're looking to get something in return.

While this is true, even most of the 'from the heart' people fail to understand that hey are still boosting their ego because they know they do it from heart.

If I'd drink beer all day and browse for porn, then that would be from heart. I am hearty.