This song comes to mind
It's a question of lust
It's a question of trust
It's a question of not
letting what we've built up crumble to dust
It's all of these things and more, that keep us together
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It's question of trust for him. He needs to think if he can trust you. Whether you are worthy of trust is not the question, it's whether he thinks you are worthy of his trust that will matter. You guys had been having problems, that will probably add weight to his decision. I'm not sure what you can do to help piratewench. Can you chase away all his fears and make him trust? If not, the little acts of kindness, never hurt anyone.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~