if you didnt know, people at my age are having sex more than you think. i dont know whats so bad about me learning more about sex. many high schoolers and even middle schoolers are having sex.
i just want to learn more. is that bad? o-0
if you didnt know, people at my age are having sex more than you think. i dont know whats so bad about me learning more about sex. many high schoolers and even middle schoolers are having sex.
i just want to learn more. is that bad? o-0
No it's not. Women are gonna fall for guys like you, you're making a good investment. You're already a lot farther ahead than me and I'm 19
Just because (some) kids are doing it doesn't make it smart and doesn't make you ready for the responsibilities having sex entails.
Just wait, babies will be ****ing each other from inside the womb when you get to be my age, which actually is only a few years.
Anyway, it is wrong for you to be having sex at the age of 14. You can't get support a girl and a baby by yourself! I think you should be learning how to raise a child and how to maintain a successful family/relationship before you learn how to put it in her butt.
I'm not saying it's bad to ask questions, but there is a certain order to things.
its not (some) its most. its not just maybe 50 kids out of a high school of 1000 having sex, more like 800/1000. we "kids" dont think about the responsibilities and just think about getting laid. we dont have as much experience with life as the adults and are hormones are wild. why do you have such a big deal with me having more knowledge about sex and being on this forum in general? do you think teaching a 14 year old kid more facts about sex is wrong? do you want me to get off this forum?
No, MOST kids at 14 are certainly NOT having sex, although I agree most of YOUR FRIENDS may be doing it (like attracts like). I am well aware of the sex statistics for kids your age. And yes, you are a kid.
Who said anyone had a problem with you being on this forum? I have a problem with you having sex, not seeking information. However, if you are looking for information about sex, there are better places to go for accurate information. Try here: [url]http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/[/url]
im not STUPID for getting a girl pregnant. i know what to do and what not to do. i already know all the problems im going to face IF i get a girl pregnant. and i KNOW that im not going to get a girl pregnant at this age. i know how to control myself when it comes to that.
i dont think i should learn more about supporting a girl and a baby because im not going to get a girl pregnant. im not that stupid. so your assuming im going to get a girl pregnant? im not that kid who gets bad grades or do drugs. i get good grades and happen to have sex.
The type of information you're seeking is hardly what most older people would call useful. And mostly, it would be comforting to know that you're not screwing around with it, because the consensus among the older people is that 14 year olds don't make very good life-decisions, so they'd like to not see them exposing themselves to situations in which those decisions might need to be made.
I know you're exaggerating to make a point, and that would be great if that's how it was, but the truth is that nobody, girls especially, care about that kind of stuff until they're maybe in their late 20s or early 30s
Brian, now is the best time in your life to **** as many girls as you can. Take it from someone who hasn't been there, this is selfless advice- people like you are partly the reason girls my age want the type of guy I'm not. Girls your age are more ignorant about sex than they ever will be again. Now is the time to learn and "do", because if you don't, someone else will and when these girls get older, as you'll find out, will demand guys that have popped a lot of cherries. Noob guy + noob girl = ok. noob girl + pro guy = ok. noob guy + pro girl = not ok
You get my drift? Don't mess up, but it sounds like you already haven't, so kudos, you avoided a landmine and didn't even know it
I wouldn't be surprised if more than half the kids in his grade are doing it. He may go to a city school or a ghetto school
Aww, DM... remember you have a younger sister... how'd you like this guy hanging out with her? You are allowing your inexperience to cloud your judgement.
EDIT: after working in a county hospital, I can tell you for sure the last people who should be having sex are the ghetto kids. They are the ones that end up giving birth.
Last edited by shh!; 30-07-08 at 10:53 AM.
Do something more productive like, get a job or something. DM's just sex-starved, but he'll get lucky a couple of times eventually and he'll change his tune.
He wouldn't be around my sister ever because my little sister doesn't hang out with people like him
just because i like sex doesnt mean you know everything about me. im a pretty shy guy and dont talk much. but i have many friends from many of the clicks like the emos, preps, goths, jocks, popular's, unpopulars, etc. im actually a pretty nice guy. BUT because i have sex, you would already stereotype me as someone who hates school , do drugs, doesnt care about my education, etc. many people i never thought had/would have sex had. and its gets pretty shocking sometimes :o
LIKE some people think i would never have sex and would think of me as a goody good. while some other people would think of me as a sex addict or whatever.