Dance Partner

[Kromat]

* Update *
I talked to her yesterday, and she still wants to go for the dance lessons, but isn't looking for a boyfriend currently.
She wants to focus on her studies, and I respect that.
I'll see how things develop after that time.

[doppelgaenger]

I can dance better than you

I do the Macarena, the YMCA, the Chicken dance, the Robot, the Square Dance, the Rick Roll, the Q-tip, and pretty much every kind of dance there is!

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Anyway, I think she gave you a loaded excuse for not wanting to date. I am the most studious of them all, and even I would back down to date someone I was interested in. Dance with her, have fun, get better, and when you find someone who is interested in dancing with you, and a relationship, drop this bookworm.

[Kromat]

Anyway, I think she gave you a loaded excuse for not wanting to date. I am the most studious of them all, and even I would back down to date someone I was interested in. Dance with her, have fun, get better, and when you find someone who is interested in dancing with you, and a relationship, drop this bookworm.

Like they say, women are complicated creatures that need to viewed from all angles.

[doppelgaenger]

Like they say, women are complicated creatures that need to viewed from all angles.

I don't think women are any more complicated than men are confused.

Take it as it is and don't look for any underlying message. If she didn't get want she wanted across to you, then too bad. "I am concentrating on my studies" = "I am not interested enough in you to put the book down"

I'll have to read this whole thread before I know what went wrong with your approach, if anything.

[Kromat]

I don't think women are any more complicated than men are confused.

Take it as it is and don't look for any underlying message. If she didn't get want she wanted across to you, then too bad.
"I am concentrating on my studies" = "I am not interested enough in you to put the book down"

I'll have to read this whole thread before I know what went wrong with your approach, if anything.

I haven't done anything wrong I think, I asked for her # yesterday, because since it'd be easier to communicate,
If one of us misses a week for a particular reason to let each other know and she hesitated and said that she's flattered, but she isn't looking for a boyfriend right now, and doesn't give away her # that easily.
Still wants to take dance lessons and hang out one time, so we can chat.

P.S. Hard to tell, If you are or aren't interested in a person when you haven't met them yet since I used Lavalife.

Is there a reason, why someone would sign up to a site like that and say they aren't looking?

[Charlie Boy II]

She's looking alright, she's just not looking for you. I don't really see how she could have spelt it out much clearer.

[Kromat]

She's looking alright, she's just not looking for you. I don't really see how she could have spelt it out much clearer.

That is what I figured, but it sucks either way.

[Charlie Boy II]

ah well, maybe she'll come round after a few dance lessons.

[Kromat]

We'll see, but who knows what this girl wants.

[1averagejoe]

We'll see, but who knows what this girl wants.

Times like these, don't you wish you could read minds?

I think she's just not interested in you but probably sees you're a great guy and dancer. So she wanted to stick around...but then again, only she knows the reason behind.

[agatha]

Post a video of you dancing when you are used to each other!

I agree with shh!
prove to us you both know how to dance.lol!

looking forward to see your video. give us also the link

[Kromat]

Times like these, don't you wish you could read minds?

I think she's just not interested in you, but probably sees you're a great guy and dancer.
So she wanted to stick around...but then again, only she knows the reason behind.

We haven't met in person yet though, so how can she say I'm not her type from just talking on MSN?

Interesting thing happens sometimes though, even though she might be looking for someone
else or is dating at the moment, who knows If that is the person she'll be with.
Right now, I'll enjoy my time and show her how much fun I can be, and regret saying that

P.S. No expectations anymore unless they happen by her choice, but I'll go there like
I do every year to just have fun and dance what I love to do.

Also, there are tons of women out there that I can prowl for, so it's not like this is a lose, but
just gives someone else the benefit of my company.

[1averagejoe]

Good for you! And good luck Kromat!

[Illusional]

getting drunk and being horny... it's two of the best things that a human being can do successfully.

raverboy

[Kromat]

This girl Caroline is so confusing....
First she says yes to showing last week to meet up at a restaurant before lessons, doesn't show up
I was expecting her at dance lessons this week, doesn't show up
P.S. Gave her my #, didn't call once either week.

Now, she said to meet up with my other friends at a dance club on Saturday :S

P.S. She says that she's definitely going to come, hmmmm...
After what she put me through the last two events, I'm not expecting much, If she shows up... I'll have fun either way,
because I was initially just going to hang out with friends from class, so she's just an extra person that I get to know,
and possibly become dance partners with throughout the year starting this Wednesday.
We'll see how the night goes, and If she really likes my personality and see how the partnership will work out.

** Women are so difficult to understand, first they're interested and later you feel like they blew you off
because they didn't show up twice, but still want to go, when you suggest something else......
I guess I'll give you the details of what happens Sunday Morning after I come back from this situation.