Friendship Rut

[I'm not telling]

That sounds scary.

Hopefully she won't think so. Good luck man!

what sounds scary? A kink in my neck?

[ACR]

Haha no, that you over-analyze everything. ;]

[Shadow2121]

I've noticed that being a little bit of a dick helps.

[XPRabbit]

I've noticed that being a little bit of a dick helps.

wow this is acctually something i hear a lot and really bugs me to hear lol, i can be a natural smart ass but it isn't in my nature or anywhere near my morals to act like a dick... lol i wanna know how right that is... and what happens when you act like a dick and thy find your a just a sweetheart? do you loose it when they know you were only acting? lol or maybe it's a tactic the nice guy can't take.

[Junket]

I have a nack for seeing most possibilities and their outcomes almost simultaneously, so its hard for me to make decisions.

I used to think like you.

It didn't get me very far for the reason you stated.

You spend so much time thinking about why it won't work, and not enough time making it so it does, you end up living in a very safe, though very boring life.

Thinking is good and all, but so long as nobody is gonna get hurt, force yourself to act every now and then.

[XPRabbit]

I used to think like you.

It didn't get me very far for the reason you stated.

Lol i heard something from a friend of mine, and they got it from Big Bang Theory:
If you put a cat in a box without food or water for two weeks do you accept the fact that the cats dead or do you open the box to find out for sure. if you accept the fact the cats dead and bury the box, then no matter what the outcome it died in the end. but if you open the box...

yeah being a cat person I never favored this saying, but i love the meaning behind it.

[1averagejoe]

You wouldn't happen to be the science, math, or engineering type would you? We tend to over analyze everything to the point where we're analyzing our analysis...lol.

This is something you've got to just overcome, you've got to learn when not to think...if that makes any sense, lol. Just do it and don't worry about the outcome.

[lesa]

I over-analyze too. It's so hard! I over-analyze my analysis lol. You have to really let yourself go, and it will be difficult at times. It almost feels like gambling, lol.

[XPRabbit]

^.^ in the personal development area i posted my thoughts... basically how i think... in a nutshell... but yeah i find i not only over-analyze, i tend to argue with myself to get a better grip on the scene. i throw it at myself and then argue it to strengthen my outlook... causing me to take a lot less risks...