most successful way to ask a girl out

[Kromat]

I can't seem to get "that" spark with a girl anymore myself. Is there something
wrong with me or has life and luck completely abandoned me?

Well, we all feel this way sometime in our lives, so don't feel so bad about yourself.
I haven't had much success with women in past, but now
It's started to get a lot better and it surely does feel great.
Maybe your not finding that spark, because your probably looking in the wrong places.
Try different environments that you normally wouldn't go to, and you'll
find various personalities that you normally wouldn't come across.
Pick your opportunities carefully and don't limit yourself to just one location.

[FiFaFom]

It isn't hard.

You: "Hello"
Her: "Hello!"
You: "I was wondering if you wanted to go to *insert activity here* with me?

I've only done it once, but it worked, keep it simple I guess

[Only-virgins]

Well, we all feel this way sometime in our lives, so don't feel so bad about yourself.
I haven't had much success with women in past, but now
It's started to get a lot better and it surely does feel great.
Maybe your not finding that spark, because your probably looking in the wrong places.
Try different environments that you normally wouldn't go to, and you'll
find various personalities that you normally wouldn't come across.
Pick your opportunities carefully and don't limit yourself to just one location.

Yea, thanks. Though I didn't really mean that personality kind of clicking together. It has just been nearly over 10 years since I have even seen a girl that has made me go "Wow". I need that, With out it I am not motivated enough.

[Kromat]

Yea, thanks. Though I didn't really mean that personality kind of clicking together. It has just been nearly over 10 years since I have even seen a girl that has made me go "Wow". I need that, With out it I am not motivated enough.

Sometimes it takes longer to know a person, for that wow factor to kick in.

Usually the more you spend time with an individual, the more you tend to appreciate them.

[Kromat]

Make a joke of it. I don't think I've ever been turned down by a girl I made laugh.

You might try something simple like asking her what her favorite food is. Try to intentionally get your timing off
so she'll want to know why you're asking. Then you smile and say, "So I know where to take you when we go
out Friday night." If you can spit that out without coming off as a complete dope you've pretty much sealed the deal.

You make talking to girls like it's rocket science, so it works for you,
doesn't mean that it'll work for him.
Use your confidence and talk about stuff that your comfortable with
and that she would find interesting or funny that you like, have experienced, heard.......
Like most comedians and smooth talkers, they talk about their personal
life as a form of entertainment that others should hear about.

[JShadows]

yea im about to ask her in about.... 30 minutes.... *scared* :/

[JShadows]

ill let you guys know how i do

[shh!]

Don't be scared. It's part of being a male, and the more you practice, the less scary it will be. Besides, what's the worst that can happen? She isn't going to kick you in the balls and run, you know. Good luck.

[littlewing]

Approach a girl...

"Hey babe" *scratch your ass* "and what exactly a hot mooma like you doin' on such a lovely day?" *get closer* "wanna go grab a burger? I'm f***ing starving man..."

or..

"Ughm... hi" *scratch your crotch* "I was umm..." *look away* "he-h" *look back* "maybe you are hungry?"

[JShadows]

yeah i kinda got nervous, so i didnt say exactly what i wanted but, hey she said yea

[Cain]

What did you say/do?

[JShadows]

and one more thing. i kinda bitched out on saying the word "date" but this is what i said after like a minute of small talk...

hey do you want to go to the movies with me and john and his girlfriend? on Tuesday or wednesday? then she sad yea. and i asked her for her number, and she gave it to me. and i said ill call you with more info later.

did i do ok, or did i **** up by making it a double date? and the thing is im not shure if john can go(never asked him), should i just say he had something come up. she doesnt talk to john so she wouldnt find out

[JShadows]

i was nervous thats why i did that, but i didnt act like i was nervous.

[JShadows]

the thing is we were kinda friends in school. but never talked outside of class and lunch. but we would say hi when we walked by eachother in the halls. you think she knows it is a "date" or that i want it to be thought of as a date?

[shh!]

She may have only accepted because it was a double date. (Girls get nervous, too.) Ask John if he can make it, and if he can, meet him at the movies and ditch him afterwards. You can take her for ice cream or coffee or whatever. If John can't make it, then just call her and tell her. If she seems uncomfortable, then offer to set up another day when John is available or ask another friend.

When you call her back with more detail, you can say something like "this is a date, right?"

I think she knows it's a date,a nd I doubt she'll care if John can't go.