Should I be cool with my gf dancing with other guys?

[Yacker]

I think I would be more concerned if she came back with guys phone #s or something. I don't know if she grinding with random guys should really be such an issue. When people are jealous aren't they just afraid of losing what they have? In that mindset you are afraid of losing what you've built together vs the random guy grinding on your girl and probably can't even really interact with her because the music is too loud. It's just a dancing body.

[CompletePimp]

I think I would be more concerned if she came back with guys phone #s or something. I don't know if she grinding with random guys should really be such an issue. When people are jealous aren't they just afraid of losing what they have? In that mindset you are afraid of losing what you've built together vs the random guy grinding on your girl and probably can't even really interact with her because the music is too loud. It's just a dancing body.

I'm not concerned that she would do that at all. Like I said I know she is faithful, and I know that in HER mind she knows she didn't do anything wrong. But in my mind I'm just uncomfortable. I mean, shit, the night of she even texted me like 2 in the morning to tell me she was thinking of me and was missing me so I know she wasn't out doing unfaithful things. Again for me I think it's just a problem of the mental state I'm in about it. And I'm just wondering how I can loosen up about it.