depressed

[aprelka]

ya maybe its revenged, but it will give hime the taste of he's own medicine...........
but whatever, i will still stay with him,,,,no skeletons we're kept long in the closet,,,,we will see each other again, once i found out something he's hiding it will be the end, we're far from each other i cant blame him,i cant prove anything, but i still want to be reasonable.

[aprelka]

on what he did before i forgive him already but i will never forget (i told him that).....but i had to have reason if i will break up with him.

[Cain]

ya maybe its revenged, but it will give hime the taste of he's own medicine...........
but whatever, i will still stay with him,,,,no skeletons we're kept long in the closet,,,,we will see each other again, once i found out something he's hiding it will be the end, we're far from each other i cant blame him,i cant prove anything, but i still want to be reasonable.

He's going to walk all over you.

He's treating you like shit and you're letting him. He cheated. He hit you. And all you're doing is making excuses for him and justifying why he did it.

"We're so far from each other so I don't blame him for cheating."

"I was acting like a bitch so he had every right to hit me."

That's ridiculous.

[Cain]

on what he did before i forgive him already but i will never forget (i told him that).....but i had to have reason if i will break up with him.

This isn't some contractual obligation. You don't have to have proof that he's cheating. If you think he is, the trust is already gone and the relationship is worthless anyways.

You obviously do not have experience with relationships.

[boobaa]

If he is a russian who smokes weed and drinks, he is not good. Russians who do such things don't know how to handle themselves and go berserk.

[aprelka]

i cant do just to leave him,,,i sometimes wish he was another guy.......a guy that would cherish me forever.....not just for a short time....

[Cain]

i cant do just to leave him,,,i sometimes wish he was another guy.......a guy that would cherish me forever.....not just for a short time....

But he's not. You're hoping for something that he isn't. This is your problem. Stop trying to change him and find someone worth your time.

[aprelka]

But he's not. You're hoping for something that he isn't. This is your problem. Stop trying to change him and find someone worth your time.
_____________i will try......_

[aprelka]

its not easy but i will try....
but i dont think looking for a spare will solve anything....

[Cain]

its not easy but i will try....
but i dont think looking for a spare will solve anything....

What are you talking about looking for a spare? Stop thinking that this guy is the best you can get. You can and will find better.

[aprelka]

ok, ok i will try to do it... ((

[aprelka]

but how to start now?

[Cain]

but how to start now?

I don't know what you're asking.

Break up with him and don't talk to him anymore. Don't move close to him. Live your life and better yourself. Then, eventually, you'll find another guy.

[aprelka]

u dont know what im asking,,,but u answered.... but whatever,,, anyway,,,thanks cain...

[Cain]

u dont know what im asking,,,but u answered.... but whatever,,, anyway,,,thanks cain...

I assumed that was what you were asking. I didn't know for sure.