He says NO to sex!

[ecojeanne]

i still like cops

[starbuck]

During that time, he bragged that he was huge and that his past girlfriends loved the way he performed in bed. So, when the time came for us, I was disappointed that he lied. I told him that he is extremely arrogant and his response, "he earned that right to be". He also told me that he is use to women kissing his ass.

Was that attractive behavior to you? Whenever someone blows alot of hot air like that, I usually suspect latent insecurities.

Someone who is really good in bed, doesn't have to brag about it.

[Love Portion #9]

Well you can have this one.

[starbuck]

Well you can have this one.

No thank you. I like my men humble, and able to get an erection.

[Love Portion #9]

Me too Starbuck! But I am 38 and looking for the right man to settle down with. So size really does not matter. Someone who is established and is not looking for a woman to take care of him. Someone who has it together. But I am finding out that police officers have serious ass issues. Feel me?

[ecojeanne]

cops are the best thing since sliced bread

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Was that attractive behavior to you? Whenever someone blows alot of hot air like that, I usually suspect latent insecurities.

Someone who is really good in bed, doesn't have to brag about it.

So true. Like if I'm conversing with a guy and he starts saying he's packing and he makes all the girls beg him to stop I automatically think "yea, he's a tiny mother****er" lol. WHen guys boast like that, its a turn off. Cuz they mean the COMPLETE opposite.

Honestly, I dont really expect a 55 year old to still be able to do those things without medication(ie. Viagra or Enzyte like Bob lol).

Darn, it sounds lame dating a cop....I always thought it would be kinda sexy to date one....he could randomnly come home and tell me Im under arrest and handcuff me to some place in the house and **** me....sigh....my dreams are shattered

[GrkScorp]

Darn, it sounds lame dating a cop....I always thought it would be kinda sexy to date one....he could randomnly come home and tell me Im under arrest and handcuff me to some place in the house and **** me....sigh....my dreams are shattered

Oh well.., never too late to start dreaming about accountants..

Misappropriating his firm assets into various places..

Insisting on using double entry systems..

Can't wait till you grab hold of him and audit his staff..

[starbuck]

Honestly, I dont really expect a 55 year old to still be able to do those things without medication(ie. Viagra or Enzyte like Bob lol). (

OMG, those Enzyte like Bob commercials are just soooo weird.

As for most 55 year-old men having erectile dysfunction, from the studies I've read it's not as big a percentage as you'd think. I'll link something if anyone is interested.

[shh!]

Yeah, while erectile dysfunction isn't rare, it also isn't the statistical norm at that age. Jeez, most of you youngsters don't know anything about aging, do you?

[elfen31]

LOL.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Nope, I just consider 55 to be on the old side so I assumed he couldnt keep it up without medication

[survivor08]

i still like cops

Yes we know. Don't thread hijack. You actually may not like cops but like to be put the handcuffs on and be roughed up. Yes we know.

[survivor08]

To the OP. I would cut the relationship now while you are at it. It will only prolong the innevitable. You will be thinking about it and how you are not being satisfied.

[damn2008]

It was approximately four months before we became intimate. During that time, he bragged that he was huge and that his past girlfriends loved the way he performed in bed. So, when the time came for us, I was disappointed that he lied. I told him that he is extremely arrogant and his response, "he earned that right to be". He also told me that he is use to women kissing his ass. If you have been with a man for 6-months, and all he can do is perform oral sex, what would you think? It is not the fact that he may have an ED problem, it is his attitude in general. Why act like he is 'DA MAN' if he can not put out? Typical behavior of a police officer!

I have some friends who were former cops and federal officers...they all left and are happier now. They do say they still have some friends but they say they met a lot more dickheads than anything...and most of these friends of mine were FEMALE cops.

They said it can be the stress of the job, and there are a lot of egos/competitive people in the job. Most cops act like complete a-holes anyways...must be part of the training.

The guy probably has major self-esteem issues if he brags so much...especially now at 55 when he doesn't have much left to show for it.