Love can drive you crazy!

[starbuck]

Well now that he's coming to the forums to read up on your posts, you might wanna delete this.

Unless you want him to know what an insecure, emotional wreck you are.

[excowho]

Oh wow,

You sounded so much like my ex it scared me.
2 months in?
Man chill, quitting school and work over a 2 month relationship?(My ex told me she would stop everything if I ended it, so I did, so she could learn that life goes on. That and she called me 25 times in one night, I kid you not, I didn't pick up once.)

Just the things that were said show that you're not emotionally stable enough to continue in a real and healthy relationship.
Get yourself together.

[misombra]

This fellow you are seeing will be a good learning experience for you. Since you say you are intelligent, there may be hope for you.

Are you planning to go to college, Lanna? I hope so. Don't depend on this teacher fellow to stick around much longer (I give it 2 more months, tops) unless he's a controlling type & you like being his bitch.

As for her losing him, I say the sooner the better. Sorry Lanna, but you don't see it yet but those of us a bit more experienced than you know this guy is no good.

2 months? you're generous.

[xO Lanna]

I go to college right now. But recently I've been acting a lot less emotional. So he might be getting a job somewhere out of the state. He asked me to go with him wherever he goes.

[Gigabitch]

Well, that's just because he has no idea how unbalanced you are about him. Don't move anywhere with this guy- you expect more from him than any one has a right to expect from anyone but their mother during their infancy. There's no way he can live up to that.

Look, someday, somehow, you're going to lose him. Even if you get married and are faithful to one another until you're 90, one of you is going to die and then it will be OVER, and you know what? That's okay. It really is. If you can come to understand that you are right in the middle of experiencing the most wonderful thing in the world (loving another), maybe you'll unclench a bit and actually enjoy it.

[CompletePimp]

You're young and sprung. I dont think you're that attractive so don't be running around saying narcissistic things like 'im super hot' that kind of attitude is what turns guys off. Nothing kills a girl's appeal like blind narcissism. And if your boyfriend found out how obsessed you were he'd prolly run away. Get a handle on your emotions. Theres a 95% chance that you will eventually break up, especially at your age, relationships don't last. Going off to college, new jobs, finding places to live etc. All the changes a person goes through during their early 20's will leave them wanting different things and change as a person. So don't get too caught it because this relationship almost surely will end sooner or later.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

I dont think you're that attractive so don't be running around saying narcissistic things like 'im super hot' that kind of attitude is what turns guys off. Nothing kills a girl's appeal like blind narcissism.

It turns me off too, from even wanting to be friends with the person. There's a thin line between confidence and cockiness and this chick has completely jumped over to the cocky side.

[vashti]

Your problem is that you're a narcissist and obsessive. Live with it or deal with it.

I question the "incredibly smart" bit, too. Smart people know it is best to hide their narcissism.

[IndiReloaded]

Noone can ever take your education away from you, Lanna. Do NOT give that up for any man.

I still think you have serious parental issues in regards to this fellow. Even tho I still think he's a mess for dating a former student, I feel kinda bad for him. When you realize its not all about you & this guy has issues of his own you will dump him like yesterdays used chamber pot.

Oh, and you are not even close to being the only gal who is beautiful (if you are, dunno) and goes to college. If that is all you have going for you, you are in for a rude wake up call.

What are you studying, Lanna?

[Cao Pi]

You're obviously an attention whore, and you think ignorance equals innocence.

[DoesntMatter]

So I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months and a few weeks now. I am so deeply in love with him, I cry about it. The issue with it is that I am extra emotional because of this. To the point where if he pours himself a glass of water, I get really upset if he doesn't ask me if I would like a glass. I get so emotional that it's absolutely ridiculous. We had sex today and afterwards, I cried. My main fear in life is that I will lose him. Absolutely nothing is going wrong in our relationship. In fact, these past few days have been awesome. Tomorrow night he is cooking me dinner and we are going to watch a movie. I imagined once that if we broke up I would quit my job and stop going to school. He doesn't know that and I really don't want him to. I tell him everything but how much I love him. If Brad Pitt was 10 years younger, shirtless, and about to make a move on me; I would reject him! The other thing is it's not like he is the only man I've dated. I am super hot, work at a tanning salon (So I always have a nice tan), and incredibly smart. I easily have another boyfriend. WHAT IS MY PROBLEM?! I don't want to be emotional anymore.

I hope this is for real. Because if it is, it is hilarious

You're just a hot piece of flesh for him to pork and nothing else

[starbuck]

To be fair to Lana, do you guys think that some of what she is expressing is pretty typical of a teenage girl mindset? I'm too old to remember exactly what it was like hehe, but I do remember my emotions being much more intense back then.

How much of this is just an 18-year old being, well, an 18-year old?

[DoesntMatter]

Yeah it is. Maybe she should try being single longer, it makes some grow up faster

[vashti]

I think that self-absorption is normal for the age, but to outwardly express such narcissism? I don't think so. Lots of girls her age are incredibly introverted about their looks. (They are probably equally as insecure, though.)

[xO Lanna]

That's nice that you don't think I'm hot. Not every person in the entire world is going to find me attractive. I am cocky and you know what, I don't really care. I am only taking my core classes right now. But I am majoring in industrial engineering and plan on becoming a sales engineer. I am 18 years old and after only working at a tanning salon for a month I was promoted to manager because of my sales. I am intelligent. I've never studied for a math test in my entire life and I've never gotten worse then a B on a test. I may not have the best common sense when it comes to a relationship but I am new to this. I have never wanted to be in a serious relationship until I met my current boyfriend. We may not be the most normal couple but I love him. I may not be the most suitable girl for him but he loves me. Not because I'm young, not because I'm stupid and give him what he wants, but because we have a lot in common and because we make each other happy. At the end of the day when I lay in bed to go to sleep the only person I want next to me is him. I have a lot of emotional issues, I know that. And so does he. That is why I started coming to this forum. I wanted help. I didn't want to be ridiculed.