Help me =(

[vashti]

Everyone needs a break from their studies. You are just making excuses, my friend.

[kukkiwon]

ur right =( >< im gutless speechless, i don't want to get rejected vashti can i contact u through msn or something..

[vashti]

Sorry, no can do. I don't have it.

[kukkiwon]

ah kk, so why dont i b friends with someone b4 asking them out =S i dont get it

[vashti]

Because when a girl thinks of you as a friend, it is usually pretty hard for her to see you romantically. It's kind of like how you see your mom as your mom, but have a hard time seeing her as a sexual being, even though you KNOW she had sex in order to give birth to you.

Get it?

[kukkiwon]

WEIRD..... but yea i got it, girls know best LOL...

[Rinyotsu]

I too am 17, 18 in January. I am the same way, trying to tell a girl I like her but unable to speak it. I almost did it on Thursday before I couldn't.
Anyway, the reason I am replying is because I wrote a few lines to try to psych me up for telling her. It worked til my voice stopped but I am sure it had an effect;
Victory is close at hand, victory will be my words spoken,
Anything thereafter will be a result, wether good or bad.
Hope for a result alters courage which is a step back,
Victory shall be the only motivation, think not of any result.
Focus shall be placed on victory for without it, all results are hidden.
Think not on what is behind he closed door, think only of opening it.
My victory I seek, My heart becomes a gift.
I shall offer her my gift without hope of result
For hope will clench my love-speaking voice,
Mouth will stay static, refusing me sorrow or rejoice.
Fear not embarassment in its stead welcome in open arms
The pain of it or the warm embrace of loving charms.
Freeze not the words to be spoken,
Else my mind contiue to be brokn.
Worry not of following phrases for they do not matter.
I will not be bruised nor be in a tatter.

I hope this helps you.

[miSSleepy]

Kukki, you have to come to terms with the fact that everyone has been rejected at some point, and it's inevitable things will not always go right in your life...whether that happens now or 10 years down the track. Always avoiding situations for fear of rejection will not let you get anywhere and after a while you'll start kicking yourself for being so passive because of all the things you would have missed.

[kukkiwon]

Thxs for helping guys it really means alot..

yea i kinda get what you mean vashti, but isnt it respectful to talk to the person n b friends 1st...

PS: thought it was like this, i think i watched 2 much movies lol

[vashti]

You have to establish friendly contact. You do not have to establish a friendship.

[JohnMichael21]

Women find confidence and drive sexy. Do you catch her looking your way? A long glance or a smile of interest on her part when she does see you? Find out her body language. Those in it self are confidence boosters too see if she truly is attracted too you or has interest. If yea really want things in life you have too go get them . Sweep her off her feet by showing her you are different ! Good luck

[miSSleepy]

John, the thing says "location" not "residential history"
but you're right, with the advice. If a guy was so scared to go near me I'd certainly think less of him than if he was prepared to make a move.

[kukkiwon]

ahhhh... i looked scared >< so does that mean im finish o no..

HELP me =( misSLEEPY... >< doh

what do i do now..

[JohnMichael21]

Ha it looks like i did mess up on the location aspect! Good advice too!

as for you bro!
Changer her mind and show her that confidence!

What signs has she shown that she is interested?
or is this a shot in the dark?

[kukkiwon]

you want honesty,

I don't know,
TKD= Martial arts you see....
It kinda goes likke this shes 18 idk how she got the job there she is black belt =( yes im lower ranked and yer, idk hard to tell cause they're there to help you funny ehh...