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    Everyone always thinks I am a nice guy....does anyone here actually ****ing believe I am a nice guy?
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    You probably are in real life. When I meet new people and am dealing with strangers I am always polite because it makes everyones life easier

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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins View Post
    Everyone always thinks I am a nice guy....does anyone here actually ****ing believe I am a nice guy?
    I think you are decent, responsible & know your own mind. That to me is waaaay more important than being "nice".

    Some of the ppl I know who others think are "nice" are just confused about what the hell they want, so they just do what other ppl want. Which, of course, makes other ppl *think* they are nice . Its a stupid concept, if you ask me.

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    People have a weird concept of what a 'nice guy' is supposed to be. A nice guy isn't a doormat, or faking it, boring, or putting his own personal happiness at stake for someone else.

    A nice guy is a respectful, decent guy who generally cares about the people around him. He's not perfect, but he generally hasn't/doesn't screw other people over, and takes responsibility for himself. He treats his partner as an equal and expects the same in return.
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    Well if the nice guy was gay I could see how he would treat his partner as an equal. But in a heterosexual relationship that is just silly

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    Why is that DM?
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    It's a joke sexy. Just a joke, meant for you

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluesummer View Post
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    lol I believe its the same reason Helen Keller couldn't drive.

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    The definition of what a nice man and a nice woman is...and the definition of what the opposite of these two are ...both are very blurry to me. Every person not only is a different shade of each..they all believe each to be something else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ecojeanne View Post

    i'm not saying there aren't nice guys, the real nice guys don't try to convince us and don't talk about being one in the first place, thats the difference. real nice guys know that they aren't perfect and don't care.
    what if they omit this about themselves? what if they think/know they are nice guys but know it's not 'nice' to say it so they don't say it? are they nice guys then?

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