Am I overeacting?!

[misombra]

eh, sounds like he didn't tell you cause he knew you'd get upset.

[Pinkbubbles]

We have done a lot of talking about this. I really appreciate everyone for their feedback it has really helped me see it from many different angles. As of right now we are taking a step back, almost like a break, and then if we decide we both want to we are going to start over in a sense.