
Originally Posted by
Everlovin
I have gone out with some "hot" girls lately who don't know how to satisfy a man
some can't ride, some can't suck, some seem to think that every man in this world would be honored to sleep with them... then they act all surprised when I dump them because they are usally the ones doing the dumping.
Do most chicks just feel to self concious to be wild in bed?
Some of these "hot" girls may have been sought after by guys based on looks alone. The guys didn't care if the women really participated and certainly didn't care if they really got off. So even if such women had a lot of boyfriends... they missed out on the opportunity to learn how to really pleasure men or themselves. This is one possibility on how a "hot" girl can have sexual experience without any real skill.

Originally Posted by
ecojeanne
they just need practice and guidance
Yep....

Originally Posted by
Gribble
I'd like to visit the Isle of Lesbos, personally.
Would love to go there too... 

Originally Posted by
misombra
maybe they're just not that comfortable with you. girls tend to get really freaky when they're comfortable with someone.
Very true... even though the mechanics of sex is pretty basic... it's not all based on just instinct. Women need to feel emotionally connected somehow.. even on so-called 'one-night stands' they have to feel something for the guy they are with.

Originally Posted by
Charlie Boy II
Some chicks just aren't that sexual
I've noticed that too... Some women don't enjoy sex much and others avoid it like the plague.

Originally Posted by
.Bo.
and some are =]
And some girls have healthy libidos and even sex drives high enough to be comparable to men.

Originally Posted by
Illusional
well for the less fortunate, like the girls who dunno how the f*ck... having sex is a skill that unfortunately, not everyone is good at. you can't expect everyone to be perfect.
raverboy
Very true... Some women.. just like some men... haven't developed the skills due to different circumstances or they simply may not have realized the importance in learning.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen