Please Help You Guys.. I'm having a sticky situation...PLEASE!!

[Only-virgins]

ROFLMAO at OV deleting part of his post. There was no need to do that. Aren't you comfortable with your own sexuality?

What is wrong with fixing an incorrect post? My intentions were towards a woman saying that.

[lesa]

What is wrong with fixing an incorrect post? My intentions were towards a woman saying that.

I thought it was cute. And it made you appear confident in your own sexuality--a heterosexual who is not afraid to say things like that.

I think your comment still applied for what you were trying to say...regardless of the OP's gender. No big deal. I just like that.

[IndiReloaded]

no I remember him from before. According to him something like 40% of guys secretly want to get boofed by another guy

And all women are bi. That was a hilarious thread, btw.

[DharmicLove]

Dude. What, exactly, is your question? Should you call him? IMO, no you should not, but that's because I think all this sneaky, DL shit is disgusting. Don't you want to be with someone who is proud to be with you? Someone who wants to take you out and show you off? Don't you get sick of feeling like a whore?

Come on, Dharmic. This has GOT to be getting old for you.

Well, I'm 24 now, which is not old at all, but I've been tied down in relationships since I was 18. I really didnt have time to slut-whore around, because I'm just a sucker for love, and always have been. My thing is, I would love to be with him in a relationship, so I kinda figure that he could reform himself for the right person, which would be me.

It turns me on that he doesnt go crazy over me.. and this guy is just HOT!! He has like this raw edgy thuggish style, high cheek bones, and a smile to die for.. he's seriously sexy, and I wouldnt mind feeling like a whore for once in my life. But the problem is, I dont know how to seperate sex from emotions, so Im afraid that I may develop stronger feelings for him if I decide to have sex with him.

I'm confused as to whether I should pursue this???

[DharmicLove]

i think if hes into you he will find you..so,i dont you should rush for it.take it slow..and play with time a bit..that will test him whether hes into you or no..you should be careful not to be taken advantage of...

I know, I see where you are coming from. The way I'm making a big deal out of it, by bringing the situation to you guys, he doesnt know that I'm into him as much as I am... I left little room for being taken advantage of to happen.. although I know that it still can happen. Like you said, I think I just need to be patient. But my hormones.. my hormones. God!!

[DharmicLove]

Dharmic is a fag, btw. He is a bloke. His love interest is not openly gay. That's what he means by on the DL

Yes you should call him.

Dang Charlie Boy, do I have to be a fag?? Why cant I just be gay? I wont take offense to it though, hopefully it was a mistake. Anywho, So I should call him on what grounds?? I mean, I just feel too ****ing fab to be chasing him..

[DharmicLove]

no I remember him from before. According to him something like 40% of guys secretly want to get boofed by another guy

There is no percentage or measurement you can put on whose DL. My whole argument at that time was you would be a fool to believe any statistics about anything having to do with human sexuality. Because yes, statistics state roughly about 10%, but that 10% does not account for all of the DL and discreet gay guys running around here.

[DharmicLove]

And all women are bi. That was a hilarious thread, btw.

I never said all women are bi, so thats just a lie, and the truth aint in you.

[lesa]

There is no percentage or measurement you can put on whose DL. My whole argument at that time was you would be a fool to believe any statistics about anything having to do with human sexuality. Because yes, statistics state roughly about 10%, but that 10% does not account for all of the DL and discreet gay guys running around here.

I don't know what the percentages are but there must be a significant amount. If you put a straight man in a room with gays and all are discreet, I wonder would the straight guy become extremely nervous and want to leave or completely comfortable with his own sexuality and not "fear" turning gay or whatever? The guys that make the biggest deal or "fear" can actually be that DL man.

Let's do a study on the prison population find out.

Okay back to topic:

So you are only interested in him because of his looks and behavior towards you? Is he really "relationship material" for you? Wouldn't you rather have a serious long term relationship with a person comfortable with himself? Order some weed to get him alone to find out how he feels.

[Junket]

Charlieboy is from Australia, and since Australians have accents just like Britain, and Brits like to call gays and cigarettes fags, it's really all okay!

[Gigabitch]

I'm confused as to whether I should pursue this???

Only if you can be REALLY strict with yourself and just make it about the experience. Leave your heart at home or it will get broken.

[Mish]

no I remember him from before. According to him something like 40% of guys secretly want to get boofed by another guy

I thought it was more like 99% according to him

[TheGreek]

From the very first moment I laid eyes on this man I had a crush on him. I would beg my cousin to call him, but he would never answer the phone for him, because my cousin is not exactly the most attractive guy.

That was the gay giveaway right there.

[Mish]

My thing is, I would love to be with him in a relationship, so I kinda figure that he could reform himself for the right person, which would be me.

Dharmic, if this guy is DL and is already making certain time allocations when he can be available for you, then it may not work out the way you hope it will. If you're just out for a bit of fun then you should go for it. If you're after something more, then be careful. Build the right foundation with this person first. I remember you once said that you could make any guy turn gay and fall in love with you. If you still believe in that and want to test it, then this might be where your ideal will meet a cold hard reality.

[DoesntMatter]

Hey Dharmic you're gonna love this, my best friend came out of the closet a couple months ago although I had suspected he was gay for a while anyway. At least he definitely wasn't straight, I knew that much, so he had to be either gay or asexual