on the other hand, if you keep on having that attitude he will resent having sex with you. not letting him masturbate whenever he wants to, is the same as being upset at him for having dinner when he was hungry and not waiting for you. also, masturbating is an amazing experience cuz you can close your eyes and imagine anyone else, you are not confined to that one person that you are sick and tired of seeing each day. it requires less work and more enjoyable to some level.
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things