Not attracted to fiancé anymore

**Everlovin** · 24-01-09, 11:08 AM

Originally Posted by misombra

oh i never saw the word never up there.

Yeah thats why its best to READ the full post first. Now I can see why you give so many dumb responses.

**Gigabitch** · 24-01-09, 11:21 AM

Originally Posted by Everlovin

Yeah thats why its best to READ the full post first. Now I can see why you give so many dumb responses.

What's YOUR excuse, then?

**Indignant** · 24-01-09, 12:11 PM

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No need for greed or anger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world

You may say that I'm a dreamer
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I hope someday you'll join us
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**Vodka** · 24-01-09, 01:33 PM

it depends on how hot you are. If you have options, drop him and move on. If you're some heffer then stick with him try different sexual positions.

Have sex often, for the pleasure and the oxitonin, but don't misjudge yourself.

**CherryBlossom** · 25-01-09, 05:53 AM

Originally Posted by Lite

Is it possible you're just bored in bed and need to spice things up to keep it interesting?

It's very possible. I don't enjoy having sex with him. He's good looking and cute but I'm just not sexually attracted to him.

**emily** · 25-01-09, 06:07 AM

Def . you do not have to break up.. with him just for sexual satisfaction. It is an importantfactor. but if you leave him for just this reason thenonce you do so you will feel really terrible as you love him and he cares for you and love you .. love can always fill this gap. please reconsider your thought.

**CherryBlossom** · 25-01-09, 06:11 AM

Do you guys think there is a nice way to tell him that he doesn't turn me on anymore? Maybe he should do something about it.

**Illusional** · 25-01-09, 07:07 AM

i think that if you're already thinking about cheating, then it will more than likely happen in the future. do you really want to marry this guy and then deal with this later??

raverboy

**Lite** · 25-01-09, 07:47 PM

Originally Posted by CherryBlossom

Do you guys think there is a nice way to tell him that he doesn't turn me on anymore? Maybe he should do something about it.

HE should? HE should? Look lady, I don't know about YOUR sex life but generally it's a COLLABORATIVE effort. Maybe you should find a nice way to look that word up in the dictionary. The proper word you're looking for here is WE. Maybe WE should do something about it...

The two of you need to find a language to work out what's missing in bed, and YOU need to communicate to HIM how to get YOUR motor running. He needs to communicate to YOU what is and is not ok doing.

Stop thinking of this as a one-sided equation. YOU need to figure some things out about yourself. Whether it's that you need him to wear a vibrating cock ring and talk like Woody Woodpecker as he jackhammers you for all he's worth, or that maybe he needs to spend more time petting your skin as Yanni's greatest hits makes love to your ears by flicker of candle light in the bedroom.

It's rather hard to please someone if they do not communicate what it is they really want from you.

**simrn** · 25-01-09, 08:06 PM

just know one thing marrying is not always being attractive to one another? you know why we marry?

**Lite** · 25-01-09, 08:15 PM

Originally Posted by simrn

just know one thing marrying is not always being attractive to one another? you know why we marry?

Some people marry for love, others for security, others because they love security, some because they love the idea of security, or perhaps maybe they're a little quirky and actually understand how each other works, and find that person's continual presence in their lives to be an enhancement to their everyday existence?

No, why do we marry? Because we're dumb?

Come on, stop teasing us here. Bring the heat! It's hot you know. The heat that is.

**CherryBlossom** · 25-01-09, 11:24 PM

Originally Posted by Lite

it's a COLLABORATIVE effort.

I didn't mean to say that. Of course 'we' should do something about it. I was just asking how to tell I'm not satisfied without hurting him. Anyways, thanks everyone for your time! I'll stick with my fiancé even if I don't find him attractive. He's nice and loves me. I'll masturbate the rest of my life and I'm good to go.

**Junket** · 25-01-09, 11:27 PM

Originally Posted by CherryBlossom

I didn't mean to say that. Of course 'we' should do something about it. I was just asking how to tell I'm not satisfied without hurting him. Anyways, thanks everyone for your time! I'll stick with my fiancé even if I don't find him attractive. He's nice and loves me. I'll masturbate the rest of my life and I'm good to go.

Scum.
______

**lesa** · 26-01-09, 01:28 AM

Originally Posted by simrn

just know one thing marrying is not always being attractive to one another? you know why we marry?

Why do we marry?

**lesa** · 26-01-09, 01:29 AM

Originally Posted by CherryBlossom

I didn't mean to say that. Of course 'we' should do something about it. I was just asking how to tell I'm not satisfied without hurting him. Anyways, thanks everyone for your time! I'll stick with my fiancé even if I don't find him attractive. He's nice and loves me. I'll masturbate the rest of my life and I'm good to go.

Glad I'm not in a relationship with you.

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