Looks

[Only-virgins]

how important are they, i know many girls and boys who say they arent shallow and look deeper but is this really true?

How important for what? Selling your body for money, relationships, and acting...very important. For living everyday happily, not so important with the right mind setting.

[Mish]

I think different people are attracted to different things for varying reasons. And, is it a compromise if you simply have different standards by which you judge beauty? Some men are turned on by breasts. Others feet.

That's true. Though it's easier to find an ugly person beautiful if you are ugly as well.

The most attractive woman I've ever slept with was also the dumbest. She uttered something that could commonly be heard in a trailer park mid-coitus. Instant erection killer. I got up, picked up my things, and left. Never said a word.

Hehe, been there done that

[bluesummer]

Looks are important...on an individual basis. If you find someone attractive that someone else may find hideous, it goes back to 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'.

Good personality definitely trumps looks for me......I'd date someone a little less than hot to have the benefit of a brain and a kind heart.

[Only-virgins]

Good personality definitely trumps looks for me......I'd date someone a little less than hot to have the benefit of a brain and a kind heart.

I'll take attractive over brains. Mine do the job for me and I can think for her...its best that way anyways knowing the way women think.

[lesa]

Like Mishanya said, you got to have attraction. Both the physical and the mental. You decide what they are for you.

[Desolayted]

Looks. It does matter.
Some people don't care about it. And go for personality.
Other just say they go for personality just not to look heartless.

In my opinion it depends on the person and what they feel and think about looks.

[Bo]

sorry, i might be shallow but i can't fcuk someone with a fugly face. I can deal with a little chubbiness but for me the face is really important because that's what i'm kissing, that's what i'm looking at most of the time. On the other hand if the personalities don't match, obviously it's a no go. I'm really attracted to guys who are well-spoken though...even if they aren't that good looking.

[Indignant]

to me, a guy has to take good care of himself. have good teeth, clean. hair, height, color, facial features not important at all. not overweight as well.

[Lipp]

Looks can be important, but as long as you look at least average the personality is what tips the scale. Only desperate guys and those who want a one-night stand pursue hot girls with shitty personalities (or if the shitty personality matches their own)

[Cain]

I'll take attractive over brains. Mine do the job for me and I can think for her...its best that way anyways knowing the way women think.

I've had friends that never believed me when I said this, but I would turn down the hottest woman in the world if she wasn't intelligent. I can't imagine spending my life with someone that isn't intelligent.

I find intelligence to be an extremely attractive trait. My ex had a 4.0 in each semester for the last two years and wasn't lacking in common sense either (though she did turn out to be a little crazy). My new girl is a pre-med major in an honor's program who has been on the Dean's list in every semester she's been at college. She also isn't lacking in common sense. I find that to be extremely attractive.

[Only-virgins]

I've had friends that never believed me when I said this, but I would turn down the hottest woman in the world if she wasn't intelligent. I can't imagine spending my life with someone that isn't intelligent.

Ok Cocaine, whatever you say.